Great stuff @jazza We’ll get through this lockdown and rebuild again. I seriously considered moving North last year. Still might at some stage.
The older I get the colder Melbourne gets haha
So I have spoken to the boss in QLD and I’m getting on a plane today and doing 2 weeks quarantine then being picked up form Cairns by my boss to head to Pormpuraaw and start my very exciting adventure in a remote and beautiful part of the world. Whoo hoooo
Thats great news. Congrats!!
Great news! Happy for you and your new adventure. Safe travels.
That’s fantastic news! So excited for you
I enjoyed reading your original post. (And the others, obviously).
It reminds me of something that I find quite hard to articulate - but that is definitely a thing.
It’s that we somehow just have a bit more belief in ourselves when we are sober. That we trust our judgment a bit more. That we are able to face adversity with a bit more courage. Basically, that we can be adults.
I bet you were dreading making those calls, and that you would have avoided them at all costs when you were drinking. I have this unscientific theory that somehow the alcohol penetrates our nervous system and makes us feel a bit more fragile and a bit more fraught, and a bit less able to do difficult, complicated stuff.
Anyway, just thought I’d share.
Tits up also made me laugh. I’m originally from the North West of England and it’s been a while since I’ve heard that.
All on point there. I need to remind myself I’ve been here before, I am always very productive after a relapse and I’m still riding high being sober a week today. The phone calls had me pacing around the house like a mad man especially being on hold to the airline for 35 minutes ( I hung up twice ) It all worked out and talking to my new employer this morning was amazing. Maybe I need to incorporate Tits Up into some sort of tshirt slogan haha
Thanks for your kind words
So glad to hear that everything has worked out for you!! It’s a cool community for sure and helped me through my first weekend of sobriety. I went to a restaurant to have a nice meal on the first Satirdya, and they said me in the bar. At first I thought…oh shit. Then I hopped on the threads and, during my meal, read so many inspiring and cool experiences that I didn’t really think about the alcohol. Also I look around in the bar area and no one else was drinking either, which seemed like a pretty cool sign. Also the t-shirt is a great idea…congrats again!