Your life and your success in recovery will be directly related to your success in living constructively with your ADHD.
You need to figure that out and develop your personal system for living creatively constructively with your ADHD. Figure out an organic, evolving system for it and you will succeed
Dear all, unfortunatelly I still had a few situationsā¦there have been some Sommer Events where I could not resist the drinking im back in track now and fighting on day 2 again
I have that terrible urge of drinking when i go out in summer, and as alcoholic, i cant stop once I start. I have put myself in a very embarassing sitiation on friday due to drinking, spent crazy loads of money, hit on a married co-pilot whom I fly with disaster. Going on holidays with my daughter on tuesday so hope thats gonna help stay sober, new environment, some action, wanna Set a good example and be fit and happy again. Im Just so embarassed.
Hi @Karo nice to see you back , really Sorry about your weekend. If your going to go to events like that in the summer you need to be mentally prepared for your addiction s and how they manifest themselves ( they will try to fuck you over ) I personally canāt do certain situations yet as I donāt have enough sobriety for my head to not come off at these events . Never mind the married man episode itās embarrassing ,itās happened you havenāt hurt anyone and ( fuck it he was probably flattered) apologise for your behaviour be honest ! see it as a learning curve and move on have a great sober holiday and keep it in the day
Thanks for the upbringing words, yes you are absolutely right cant go to auch events yetā¦i somehow had to attend, one was from work, other one from airflield where I had some responsibilities assigned looking forward now tonthe sober Holidays, the gym im starting afterwards, really hoping the relapse is overcome.