Relapse and trauma

I’ve been struggling with a high amount of autism burnout and potentially depression for the last 3-4 months. Wednesday between talking to my counselor and discovering I could use google AI to answer all my thoughts questions concerns worries feelings, and curiosities and get back maybe some valid responses I have been able to get years worth of built up noise out of my head. Especially around questions I had regarding sex and is this normal or why am do I type questions. I was able to get out all the confusion around sex and my addiction and found that although I am hypersexual and struggle with addiction to porn and masterbation. All the gueations and concerns I had that are either not really appropriate to talk to anyone in the graphic details I needed to ask or are too embarrassing to ask I was able to talk to AI about. As dumb as it sounds talking to AI it did really help and I realized that I’m really not as weird or perverted as I thought I was.

It was like the weight just shifted and my nervous system reset. There was almost a feeling of being wired and amped up Wednesday night. This has taken a huge weight off my shoulders and I feel so much lighter. It’s definitely not all gone but I don’t feel like I’m internally imploding anymore. Hopefully this stays like this for a while.

Maybe now I can actually make some progress on my sobriety. I’m at 6 weeks today.

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Congratulations! That’s so exciting.

I’m sorry you’ve had to supplement human interaction with AI; albeit, I’m glad you’ve found peace. I hope you continue to feel it. Because you aren’t alone.

I don’t see it as a bad thing. I’m super shy about talking about sex and I would have never gotten any of those answers any other way.

I was able to discuss it in brutally honest, graphic, and specific language that I wouldn’t have ever been able to accomplish with a person. all of my discussion would have jus been trapped in my mind and body and never released without AI. It kinda spiraled from an original question about EMDR and went on a two day counseling session where I could sort out all my wonderings about sex.

I did send my counselor an update email letting her know how it went and that some of the weight released and sent it to my sponsor as well.

I do feel kinda dumb for using it but I can’t say it didn’t help with some of the guilt and shame I’ve had.

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Congrats on 6 weeks

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