My therapist asked me to rethink my recovery. What are my goals?
Surely living a month in active addiction every time I get a subscription for a streaming service isn’t what I want.
Yet at the same time, does technology give more pain than banning a big part of it? Not really.
Life’s better than ever. I like myself. I’m confident. I am a lot more social. I have a good job(30-45 hours a week) in which I have a future. I know what I want in life. I’m starting to make new friends. I no longer think of myself as ugly. I’ve started going to the gym.
All in all, I have very little internal motivation to lessen my screen usage. And I’m struggling with a higher power. I believe in God, but I don’t think He gives a fuck about me. So I don’t get a lot of strength from Him. My rock bottom is so high that it can’t be called a rock bottom. So why care? The only reason I have to quit is that I know active addiction is bad.
All in all, I struggle with motivation. But by sheer luck, my subscriptions to streaming services all ended yesterday, on my birthday. So I’m gonna do what Paul @Dolse71 did… but a few decades earlier in life . I want to have abstained from recreational youtube and subscribing to streaming services for a year when I turn 20.
I’m going to be tapering my addictions in baby steps instead of instantly going all in and giving up within weeks. I’m 19, I still have plenty of time to “quit”, which I can accept now. I do not need to be perfect. So for the time being I cannot watch youtube recreationally, so only when I need a tutorial of sorts. And I cannot get my own subscription to a streaming service nor use someone else’s in private. I can still watch live TV. Or watch with someone else on their account. This should make a pretty big difference when it comes to time spent abusing technology.
I will take further steps when I’m ready, but the past has shown over and over again that I won’t instantly be able to control my technology use for longer than a few weeks at a time. And technology abstention sadly isn’t possible in this day and age.
I am already struggling though. My mind is making excuses left right and centre. And I don’t have a lot of resolve at the moment…