Welcome @Vicegerent - you’re in the right place. There are many of us here who struggle with similar behavioural addictions. I’ve added you to the private thread for men struggling with this - you’ll find many fellows there - and you should also take a look through some of what Neal posted here (personally for me I found joining a group in my city made a big difference):
There is also a weekly session at InTheRooms about sexuality, intimacy, and addictions:
Keep checking in and really push for sobriety - and you will find it.