So happy! Day 4. First time saying NO

I went to my parents house and they were waiting for me with lunch and invited me a cup of wine.
They do not know.

First time I was strong enough to say no!!
Yay for me!!! :innocent::innocent:

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Well done :clap: Iโ€™m not sure of you background but why not discuss this with your parents the more of a support network you can get round you the better

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Good for you @Vic11.11! :clap: :star_struck:

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Well done! Stay strong!

Thatโ€™s great!! Keep it up :grin:

awsome i havent said no yet. I havent been offered. But if i do. Is definitely a :-1: no. Congrats

Bravo :clap:t3:
Its not easy to say no, so well done!!

Well done!

It gets a lot easier as time goes by. That type of situation no longer temps me. Stick with it.

Well done on flexing those sober muscles :raised_hands:t2: congratulations on 4 days :ok_hand:t2::pray:t2::heart:

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Good for you! My family insists I donโ€™t have a problem, no matter how many times I tell them I do and even after seeing me stumbling drunk on repeat occasions.

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Thank you all!
My parents are dealing with health problems, their fear of something happening to me would be too much to handle right now for me.
Besides, my dad has the same problem and does no feel anything is wrong with his drinking.
My mom is too sad about it, I could no add more pain to her.

Anyway, I felt the look on their faces whan I said no.

Iยดm very happy and thankful for all of you out there, where ever it is you are!

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You did so well saying no! :sob: :clap:

@Vic11.11 well :+1:t6: done!!! proud of You!!!