Hi again everyone, my situation remains the same, possibly slightly worse than before, my hubby is still being distant and none affectionate, he has posted on the al anon forum that he feels like if he stays with me he is basically giving me the opportunity to hurt him again if I relapse and doesn’t know if he can do that to himself, he has been reading self help books on alcoholism and marriage and I feel like there is little hope of him giving me the chance to make amends, I am so scared and upset but all I can do is wait for him to make his decision, he still says he needs time and space so I am just struggling along until he is ready to talk, its agony 
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Sending you a big hug.
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