No worries hun and thanks 
Of course @tailee17 and thank you, you’re a gem my lovely
Forgot to say @JazzyS you definitely don’t look your age, you gorgeous little warrior 
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Awe sweetness you are too kind. Thank you 
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And it’s only going to get better! 
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This is what being worried about the unknown looks like. I’m still on the silent treatment and haven’t heard back on when we will talk about what the future looks Like for us going forward after my relapse.
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I can understand the uneasiness and anxiety around what you’re going through and the related waiting for things to settle. It’s a tough place to be.
What I have found over the years is that as long as I do not drink, and do (or don’t do) what is within my own power - things kind of have a way of working out. Maybe not as fast as I’d like, and maybe not exactly how I like, but the conclusion is favorable more often than not.
Even in the few times where things haven’t quite worked out - sobriety grants you the ability to handle the issue far more effectively.
Right now, through keeping your head on straight, you’re giving yourself the best chance you can.
Hang in there, and just do the next right thing.
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Thank you for your advice and for replying back to me. You’re absolutely right and spot on. I was sober for over a year and broke my sobriety once. I never want to do it again. The disgust in myself and the letdown is eating at me.
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Never have to feel this way again, and I believe that you can get back on the horse, better than before.
Hopefully I am not wrong in interpreting your username as being a 49er fan - but I’m a Raiders fan, so hopefully my advice still counts 
Anyhow, feel free to reach out anytime.
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Yes I am a 49ers fan, and I have zero hate for raiders fans. Especially now that you’re in Las Vegas. The fact you’re not in our division or conference is mind blowing that there’s so much hate between the teams. Now Seahawks fans on the other hand…
I appreciate you saying I can reach out whenever. I’m going to use this app as one of the tools in my bag. I just downloaded it after relapsing the other day and so far I’m really enjoying everyone and their advice.
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It’s definitely a helpful place if you engage and are consistent with it.
I just hit 8 years in June, joined TS on Day 1. In those 8 years, there is probably like 2, maybe 3 months worth of days combined where I wasn’t here. These days I’m not even talking sobriety stuff most of the time, just bullshitting around and being a part of a group. There are several people here I’ve connected with, some of whom I have known since day 1. It’s pretty neat, and the sense of community is important - for me at least.
See you around 
Gah, don’t remind me!
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That’s great to hear. It’s nice knowing you can vouch for the app and the importance of it. I’m looking forward to football season! I’m looking forward to talking football with you. 
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Today I went to Dragonstone. Like, the actual real Dragonstone. 
I didn’t see any dragons but saw a fair few gekkos.
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A little late in posting it but took a cheeky road trip last weekend to visit my friend, was super lush seeing her
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Where is the 
emoji when we need it!? Lovely photo!
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Very chic! 
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Thanks hun and back at you girl
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Looking absolutely gorgeous! Glad you got a getaway and had time with a friend
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You are looking great Sonia. I know you are juggling a LOT and hope you do find time for some R&R and self care
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