I get that. Response posts can be thoughtless at times, where it’s more about the responder projecting their own internal struggles and uncertainties, instead of engaging in a constructive / non-confrontational way.
Our conversations, our interactions, are like a garden. Every plant has its place. There’s a balance to that garden though, and sometimes a plant is the wrong plant or in the wrong place, and you need to do a little weeding 
Speaking of weeding out the unhelpful plants from a user’s Talking Sober experience:
(I saw you mentioned above that you personally didn’t feel targeted but I’m giving this link here mainly for others who may find it helpful. Thanks for bringing up the topic! It’s an important awareness to have.)