Im 32 and I honestly dont have a single friend. Im looking for some sober people just to talk with. Maybe help each other out by just being some random person in the world thats listening.
Hope to hear from you
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Keep posting here, people are amazing and you will find the support you need. I check in each day and the way you see other people (and yourself) rack up the sober days, it’s inspiring.
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joining AA ive now got hundreds of sober friends and thousands all over the world still to meet
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I’m all about this life!
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Thats awesome. I definitely plan on hanging around. And the thought of watching everyones progress at random times seems really inspiring to keep my ass in check lol
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Ill have to further my AA search for sure!
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I know thats right! Much love and appreciation 
I’m 49 and don’t have any friends 
It’s all good tho. Sober me will make new, solid and lasting friendships with quality peeps. I will find my tribe over time. Just takes patience and effort.
You’ll do the same.
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This entire forum is filled with what you are looking for. Those that are active, find their tribe here. There are many here, i feel closer too than anyone i see in person on a regular basis.
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Just like @Ray_M_C_Laren, I found my irl peeps in the rooms of AA. We do numerous fun activities both in and outside of AA. These are true authentic friendships that I can see lasting a lifetime. They’re there for me through all the ups and downs of life.
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I’ll be 38 soon, married with two kids. I don’t understand why it’s so hard to find friends after 30!!! Wtf
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39 married, three kids. I feel the same.
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I’m 40 and I have no real friends. It doesn’t bother me most of the time. Hoping that I’ll make some once I’m back to my normal self at get out a bit
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I am 47 and don’t really have any friends either. I mainly blame myself for it, was too busy drinking and keeping it a secret from others. Now just newly sober, trying to navigate through this new life and hopefully make new friends too. I know it’s hard to try to make friends later in life, but the way I look at it as well, my (potential) new friends at least will get to know the sober and authentic me. Not the one who was always hungover, figuring out first thing in the morning whether there was enough wine in the house for when drinking time started and who would sit with the curtains closed to enjoy my wine in secrecy.
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