Of course I’ve reeped the benefits of not drinking. The list is LONG! But talking with a sober friend yesterday I shared that after 3 years, the biggest benefit is that I am no longer a liar. When drinking, so much of my time was lived in a lie. Lies to myself that I could handle it, lies to my family, my coworkers…pretty much everyone I came in contact with. The lie was me pretending that I wasn’t a drinker. I would say that to people. My adult sons…my Mom…my husband (boyfriend back then). It hurts me to know they knew, and felt powerless to do a darned thing. I knew very early into my drinking career that began many years ago, that alcohol was poison to me. But, basically living that lie was killing me faster than the alcohol. So, yeah…I fib now and again…but never about drinking. Three years. Not one drop.
And I did it and continue to do it by coming here every day. I’m a one finger typist and my phone’s voice recognition is lousy. So, although I occasionally share a thought or two, mainly my presence is reading. The good and the bad as both help. If you want to stop feeding your addiction, whatever it may be, hang out here. Do other things if you must, to help you get and stay sober. But this place was it for me.
I don’t know why I chose March 5th. But I’m glad I did.
Thanks @M-be-free49 and @SassyRocks! Shows to go…you can make a difference in your life…and stop the madness. I feel such relief. Complacent? No, but more comfortable every day.
I asked AI (Chat GPT) to create an image to represent three trips around the sun, sober. This is what AI had to say.
Congratulations on your incredible milestone of three years sober! That’s a significant achievement, symbolizing strength, growth, and commitment to your well-being. If you’re marking this occasion or reflecting on the journey, remember that every step you’ve taken is a testament to your resilience and dedication to a healthier life. Celebrations can be personal and meaningful, ranging from a quiet moment of gratitude to sharing your achievement with loved ones.
I’ve created two widescreen illustrations to celebrate your friend’s three years of sobriety. Each one captures a serene and hopeful dawn, symbolizing her journey and the new beginnings ahead. These images reflect the strength, grace, and beauty of her achievement.
Woo hoo! Congratulations on 3 years @Mbwoman!
Sorry, I’m so late to your party but it’s a good excuse for us to keep the celebration going because you’re worth it.
@JasonFisher … Jason, I am speechless. What a wonderful gift. I immediately made that beautiful picture my background. And the message is so special. I copied it down and will read it often. Thank you for your kindness!
And a day, of course! 
So much to be proud of. 
