I think I was drinking so much for so long… what happened to my natural sex drive???
Quitting cold turkey sucks!!!
Any natural stuff I can take? It’s two weeks now and I go hot / cold quickly… Poor husband, but can’t help it … …
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It can be part of PAWS. Look it up.
I lost mine at first, and it’s still not back the same as it was but I don’t think that’s a bad thing personally. I was a bit needy when it came to that before, would get upset if ‘I’ didn’t get it and now it doesn’t bother me if we have it or not.
It’s made our relationship a bit easier I think.
The other thing I think is that my wife and I have never had a sexual relationship with out booze or drugs, yes we’ve done it sober, but our lives were centered around booze and drugs.
Not only do we have to find who we are, we also need to relearn about what makes our partners tick.
Have a bit of patience and don’t forget to communicate
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How long ago since you quit?
If you don’t take any supplements you can use a high dosed vitamin B complex because drinking can give us a lack of B’s.
Magnesium is a good one too, it relaxes the muscles. Further on I would give it time because it sound like you are early in recovery. When you are not feeling well you don’t feel a sex drive either. When you have more sober days you will feel better and also the sex drive will probably return. But when you had sex under influence most of the time you have to learn how to do it sober this time. That’s a big chance for you as well as your partner.
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Thank you for advice 
… It’s only 2weeks, but I quit smoking cigarettes at same time… So Im out my mind extra!! Never knew I became a lush through time, till I actually stop… Truely thank you guys … this is a great app through pandemic!!!
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Okay… I just now researching it… Thank you …
Getting to reknow my natural self again is mind blowing…
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