this is the most honest thing you’ve ever said that i’ve read and it’s fascinating to me. thank you.
you have to consider this: you’re not creating the conditions to invite others in to discuss if you start right away in an offensive position. you do this by assuming others will not engage, and get mad yourself or accusatory before someone says anything.
there are no problem with your ideas, or when you feel safe to talk, its very interesting. i find you interesting, and I like the questions you pose.
drop the aggression as protection, it does not work for you, or for anyone. i would know, i’m also aggressive, but in different ways.
pose your questions, because they often have interesting philosophical under currents but I recommend giving more concrete examples. then wait.
you also have to remember that, in general, people like to remain comfortable. they may not be answering you, not because they are mad but because a) they don’t care (not about you, just in general) b) they dont want to think c) they are lazy d) they are looking for other types of things to talk about e) something else that has nothing to do with you personally.
I would like to second e).
English is a foreign language for me, so if I am not sure I understand correctly, I prefer to Keep my mouth shut. Has nothing to do with you.
I‘m sorry if sometimes my English isn‘t exactly right. It’s my second language and I sometimes make mistakes.
With „I second e)“ I meant: I have the Same opinion. I am a perfect example why no one should take it personally when I don’t participate in a thread. With English as second language I sometimes don’t understand and then I can’t react.