What makes a person a lier

Is not accepting something, that you feel in your heart is right/wrong, are you lieing to yourself?

If i believe its morrally right/wrong for a fact but goes against science, what is considered lieing to myself

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If you see a dish in your own sink
And in should, have to, and must be done and you know it
But you dont

Is it lieing to yourself

If a patato is a tomato
Is it a tatato

If you are a drug addict and you know your hurting
And cocaine is against the law

Do you lie to yourself if you do it

My opinion

It is

Hounest to god
I think im a very smart man :man_artist:

I answer things i question just by asking a question lol

How did i do this here
Well im almost sure someone got pissed at this, “question” due to the lack of response

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No attention

Helps me see, how narcissistic i am not. :slight_smile:

I could blaze up right now, but i refuse to pick up a substance, at you whoever saw this thredand get even slightly upset. If you didnt get upset, i dont choose not to pick up at you but actually show you; get sober for you; no1 else and nothing else will ever convince you get sober; either do it, for you by listening and learning, or face relaps

Nothing in my system but phyc meds and coffee for 597 days

Hope this helps someone learn
Your welcome

To those mad
Actually feel upset and got or get mad

You
Are
Lieing
To
Yourself

And if no1 says a thing to show me im wrong, shows me how right i am

Get sober
Stay sober
If you fall, try again, trust me. :slight_smile: because this thred is having my cake and eating it too, and its nice and sweet

Hey friend, i dont think anyone is mad or uspet at what u wrote in this thread. I just think people may be a bit confused? I love what u write and the questions u ask but Ill be honest, sometimes I struggle to piece ur posts in a thread all together. Maybe its just me :woman_shrugging: Hope ur doing well and Im glad u have such great clean and sober time behind u!

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Yeah what @butterflymoonwoman said I was way too confused to be upset at anything.

I hope you have a good day.

And remember you don’t have to just pick daisies… you can grow them​:grin:

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@Butterflymoonwoman
@Skylar07

If you believe im doing this “not” to hurt someone or myself or anything like that, then a normal response would be..
..to help me make sence to your likeing

Communication is learning

Thank you both lovingly and kindly for your feedback

Give an example of this.

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If
Only if
I knew weed was bad
And felt it was bad in my heart
But i did it anyway
Is that a form of lieing to myself?

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Its a good philosophical question.

Lying usually implies hiding something from yourself. If you know its bad, you’re not hiding, technically then you’re not lying to yourself.

You’re doing it while you know its wrong.

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The question then is not about is this a lie, but, why do i keep doing it if I KNOW its wrong?

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Ok

Was that hounestly so hard to teach me?

I dont get what you mean.

And i agree
Lieing is hiding truth
Knowing your wrong isnt necessarily hiding truth

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Not meaning to do you specifically singled out but

Are you learning by simply talking to me? Or did you already know these facts.

And

If not
Do you agree i will learn, if you help me make sence of this

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I always learn when i articulate, write down something, so yes, I did learn.

I knew these facts, but putting them together helps.

Are you mad people don’t engage with you?

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I dont know for sure but i feel like people , think, i do things for my selfish reasons to feel bigger then i am; which in the end get my negative reaction which is frustration and even, offensive to others

I do get paranoid
That people think, i ask questions or say things to , get off , at their reaction (this is not true) until i get offended

I also do get offensive when i get to this point

I think people purposely dont say anything to me because they dont like the way i come across, but not because, my advice or questions are actually good. If this is true, which i dont even know for a fact, then no1 learns from my experience, streighth, or hope; which hurts me AND whoever needs it

My goal is to get sober
I do it by TAKING AND GIVING advice, and not for attention seeking which i must make clear.

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