My name is Ree and I am a newbie to this community.
I am 26 days sober after drinking for 25 years. This is my second attempt at sobriety. I managed last time to stay sober for 6 months before I fell again. I stopped doing all the things that helped me remain sober because I thought I was “cured”. I wasnt. I began to drink again when life got hard and in the end it consumed my life once again.
I was so ashamed that I had slipped that i hid it from everyone. I even detoxed alone. I only told my loved ones after I reached day 7. Then I told them the extent to which I had fallen. I had began drinking up to 2L of wine a day and hid it by decanting into bottles of non alcoholic wine. No one knew how bad things had gotten.
This time I have put everything into my recovery. I take Naltrexone and Campril, speak with my D & A therapist weekly, participate in CBT, attend a secular AA zoom meeting twice a week, joined yoga and cut down on my hours at work to allow me to heal from my burnout as an ICU nurse which contributed to my “rock bottom”.
I continue to struggle with my anxiety and grief over the fact that I can never have alcohol again. I will never feel numb like that again. I would give anything to feel like that again. Life doesnt hold joy for me anymore. Everything i enjoyed doing…listening to music, housework, craft, renovations, singing, conversing, reading…all those things now feel different sober.
I want to get to a place where I enjoy life again and do it sober because I am a better version of me when I do not drink.