Welp I did it.
My mom arrives in town tomorrow, but I told her that I won’t be seeing her.
I feel so good about this step.
Because the old me would’ve tolerated her vampiric behavior while numbing myself with alcohol and feeling like someone was snatching my soul from my body. dramatic music
This time I’m protecting my soul, my body and my home from unwelcome energy.
So good. Feeling better in yourself about the decision you made means that it was the right one…
Did you get an ok response back?
Proud
She just replied with ‘ok’.
I imagine there will be an attempt to need to come over for something, but I won’t be responding to any of those.
And thank you
Yes, that Ok sounds ominous. If that were my mum she would then follow this up later with angry retaliation when she had worked herself up over not getting her way. And like you say, pushing and pushing at the No, hoping for a relent on it.
Yes exactly.
It’s just a part of their pathology and ‘no’ isn’t really an option.
Luckily for me, my mom will have her poor husband with her and gets a ton of supply from him, my nieces and nephew.
Lucky them