I checked it: There is no Anti-Valentine thread. So I create it!!!
Please feel free to drop here everything around Valentine’s Day.
Heartbroken? Fuck this day.
Lonely? Welcome, you are not alone!
Love the gestures but nobody will pamper you? Let’s celebrate ourselfs soberinos & soberistas
Check in here to stay sane & sober on the 14th February 2025
So I start:
Been divorced over 2 years by now, no new love in sight, my grumpy, lonely heart nags and bitches against all the happy peppy flower lovey kissy missy baci stuff you can’t escape.
So I’ve been posting A LOT of bitchy anti-valentine stuff on whatsapp which amused my people a lot
I bought myself the biggest bunch of NOT red roses but flowers of all colours, hoping the cats leave it alone
I will treat myself like a queen on the 14th to celebrate my unloved singleness, which is so much better, happier & healthier than the gone marriage
I will add my 2 cents. Past life with husband of 35 years went all out with flowers and cards and gifts. New life hubby been together 10 years does not participate in cards, flowers or gifts for any occasion. I did get flowers last week but were sent to husband as his Mother Past Away. I claimed them and looked nice on my mantel. With that said yep I like the day. I wear red and give cards to friends. I get nothing and he probably won’t even know the day.
I do hope you will celebrate yourself like a queen, but miss me with this “unloved” stuff. You may be single, but many of us here do love your authenticity, your attitude, your insight, your compassion and all your posting. You are a remarkable one, @erntedank .
@Merryshoes awwwww, thank you, that’s lovely
I love you folks here too! Never mind what’s going on, we always find inspiration, input, open arms, encouragement and humor
@LittleMissL A brilliant idea! I will look out for arguing couples tomorrow. shopping mall parking place I come!!! Best day for the weekly grocery shopping
Love this! I’ve been single for literally years, one of the few single people left out of my friends! Completely lost hope that I will ever find someone, so fuck valentine’s day! It can fuck right off! . Love your idea of pampering yourself though, that’s great, I might do that too!
I feel ya on that I’ve been told by my ex wife now I guess she wants a divorce right before I had to go out of town for work for 3 weeks yay me nothing but time to think and stew. But yes fuck valentines haha and I hope things start to look up for you. You aren’t alone and it could be worse
Ive been single for a long time after a divorce and honeatly im so over it. I have a lot to give and i could use some emotional and just life logistics support that way too. Not to mention its so cold!!
Last week I got ghosted by a guy i really really liked because he decided to marry his second cousin from Pakistan that hes never met instead that didnt feel good and was my only hope of a date this year so… thanks for the thread!
An AA group near me is doing like a karaoke party after the meeting tomorrow so i might do that
I start pampering. Not myself yet, it’s 5.30 a.m. and I’m still a bit zombie like, but my beloved nearly 19 year old boy … he loves fresh air so I gave him a human lift to the window sill. He can get down on his own, but up the old bones say nope.
that didnt feel good and was my only hope of a date this year so… thanks for the thread!
