Day 281 : No binge today. 
Day 282 : No binge today. 
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Day 287 : No binge today. 
Day 288 : No binge today. 
so with my drinking I finally had to concede that I should probably go to AA and thus now have a daily program BUT its been a year now and the food was fun at the start and Iām lucky I donāt put weight on, until now, itās all caught up with me and Iām not happy about it anymore. Can you please tell me what strategies you had in place in the early days or maybe still do.
Also what is a binge, I think nothing about eating a whole packet of chocolate biscuits or if its a share size anything I eat it all, is letās say 6 biscuits a binge
Keeping busy, having balanced meals, therapy and attending OA meetings have been the most helpful, and it gets easier as you abstain from binges. Also a binge is where you eat way past fullness, feel out of control with your eating (like you canāt stop) feel depressed about your binges, and a lot of times eat alone. Before I started being serious about recovery I also felt like crap after a binge, my heartbeat was too fast (thatās part of how I knew I had binged.) And I felt exhausted. Now I am eating a lot better than I was and I feel great. I hope this helps. 
Thatās definitely me, Iām not even hungry and I eat and now I work nights I eat all day and night. People would be amazed how much I eat but the main problem is its all crap and full of fat and sugar. Iāve seen some OA meetings advertised so I think Iāll have a listen to some other people and see how much Iāve got in common, Iāve got to change something thatās for sure. Well done with your days and your self control. If I donāt want to drink itās easy bc I donāt have to have one and start the cycle but we do still need to eat.
I wouldnāt call 6 biscuits a binge, just regular overeating. For me a binge would be at least a whole packet, probably more on top. And regular overeating, you eat even after feeling satisfied, but a binge you continue to eat even after feeling uncomfortably full to bursting. And a binge often shows similar behavior to drinking - hiding packets and receipts, guilt, defensiveness, buying from different shops so people donāt realise how much, self-loathing, etc.
It is true we need to eat, but we donāt have to eat cakes and biscuits, or crisps. Some people are different, but I donāt really binge regular food. So I could abstain from those. I just really, really want to be able to moderate.
Day 289 : No binge today. 
Donāt we allā¦
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Holy shit, shit!!!
Way to go!!!
Thank you! 
What a great thread!
Iām going to give it a go.
I donāt have much time to explain when my bingeing/restricting cycle began⦠I love eating - I mean ārealā food and indulging in a dessert - but it seems Iāve always had (though short) periods of bingeing etc.
During the past couple of years, I started noticing that I was entering in this viscious circle.
So, today is day 2 of mine non bingeing.
Welcome to the thread, and thank you for sharing your story. Day 2 is a good start, keep up the good work. 