Bottom line is the cat needs to go to the vet right. Couldn’t you lend some of the money from your ex? Not nice either I know but when paid back you’re not owing anybody anything… Hoping for the best for your cat. 18 is old but these days they can grow older than that too.
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You are definitely right. I got the old lady a vet appointment and we’ll see what happens. She’s been a great companion and I’d hate to lose her. My ex will likely insist I don’t pay her back if I take the money, even if I insist that I’ll pay it back. She’s really attached to the cat. Which is part of my delima, but you are right that the cat needs to get checked out so I’ll make it happen.
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Checking in here on my 41st. Day of sobriety to maintain my focus on day 42 to be Sober, glorious and free. Thank you God and every soul on these pages.
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Was a good day. Followed meeting until 00:54 AM. Last time I stayed up that late I was gaming. Needless to say, I’m tired. Goodnight all
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- Some days I get reflective on that last day drinking. Just reminds me of what a total waste of life it was. That last day at this time I was about 15 Guinesses deep at the bar…and that was just the beginning.
Last night after work took a friend out to the gun range and taught her some defensive shooting skills, then had dinner with her. Tonight, laundry and other chores. The difference in quality of life between then and now is amazing. Anyway, life is good.
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Looks like he’s talking to you!
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I love shooting!
15 Guinness?? My belly bloated just reading that, 
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I hadn’t even started that night…lol…i am a competitive shooter and an instructor…sounds like we could be friends!
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I used to have to qualify twice a year at the sheriff’s department but my former husband and I used to skeet shoot too. I’m sure you’re out of my league!
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This covid crap has gotten me rusty, not a lot of competitions going on right now.
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Day 10 
I worked graveyard for 5 years until last September. I used to pound a redbull or take adderall at 9pm before work and then to sleep at 5am I would drink a bottle of wine or take xanax. It was such a dark time of my life. Anyway, that was 10 months ago since I finally quit and its taken 10 months for my ciradium rythm to return to normal!! I have not been able to nap until recently so I am very pleased to announce that this past week I took THREE NAPS!! Lol. Progress!!
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I LOVE naps!! Especially when they aren’t just an excuse to sleep off a hangover!!
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LOL I would take one everyday if I could!! They are amazing!!
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#lifegoals!!
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You’re right. My cat is more important than my pride. I don’t know why I can’t get over myself sometimes. I do understand what you’re saying about your dogs. I know I’m going to be crushed when she passes. When my other cat passed, I wasn’t sober for like a week. That’s not really an option for a response anymore. I got my old lady cat the soonest appointment they had, which was Monday. I told my ex about the appointment and that I’d keep her updated. She’s really attached to the cat, so she asks about her practically every day.
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That looks like a nice set of resistance bands. I love how the resistance weight is actually printed on them. So many don’t do that.
Goggins is a good exercise partner!
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