Awesome work!! Congratulations 
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When can you start working? Is it by your new digs?
I hope you can get past the pain you feel for the lost/last relationship, Rob. Iāve been around longer than most here and all I can tell you is life does get better! You will find another love even better than what you THOUGHT this one wasā¦ clearly she isnāt the one so donāt waste another minute on the past. I wish someone had told me that long ago but itās true; look ahead and allow life to unfold.
Ok, getting down from my pedestal now, lol
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Just tagged you in my 1 year sneak peak with some english poƫtry, 1.?? Day left and im on the big 1 !!
What a yourney and what a great friends, people and support i found here on TSā¦
Thank you all 4 being there in the downs, lows, memes, replys and sharing also
So far my check inā¦
Counting down
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I can relate to what you said about not liking what you see in the mirror. I feel the same way. For months (years, probably) Iāve talked down to myself and been mean to myself about it. Lately Iāve been trying a different approach of being nicer. It hasnāt changed how I look, and I still donāt like it, but it makes me feel a little more hopeful about being able to make sustainable changes. Idk. I downloaded this app Calle I Am and it sends nice affirmations as many times a day as you want it to. Thereās a health category. Maybe give it a try. I hope you (and I) can some day see the beauty inside ourselves!!! 
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Thats the real big three!!! Big up , 2morrow im at 1 !! Bless you and all thats comming
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This sucks, Hope your recovery is as quick as it can be 
Headed to the trail to run on a beautiful Sunday morning. Embracing a day like today, when it all feels easier. 
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it is amazing in at this point in my life. I attended one aa meeting in person at the beginning of this journey and then attended 3x weekly zoom meetings all summer. Now Iām at 107 days, and I pause to be grateful I am sober. I wish I could do the same for cigarettes, oh well, another journey.
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Awww @anon79808082 you always have the best things to say! I really appreciate you always being there for me it means a lot. As far as work my old boss wants me to come to work for him but the doctor says Iām done plumbing because of my back being so bad. I start school on the 10th of October and have been thinking about getting a part time job instead so I can focus on school. My rent here is only $650/month and that includes utilities. And the fact that Iām single and not going to be dating probably for a long time frees me up to focus on school without the distraction or extra financial expenses of being in a relationship. Thank you again Donna youāre the best!!! 
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Day 90.
I circumvented the āmilestone angstā Iāve been reading about by celebrating Day 89 - fresh flowers and some cambozola cheese!
But this counting days thing. I love it, but now that I am sober - while I love seeing the days stack up, life is starting to get pretty good - I donāt want to see it all whoosh by! 
Every day each of us tucks in sober is another win - whether Day 1 or 10,000.
All that said, @Figgie and @Mychelle and @Apes2020 and @anon89207786 - nice numbers!
And all of you. Beautiful sober days to all 
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Oh Jenna, what @anon79808082 and @mleclaire saidā¦
Sure - we feel better about ourselves when we take care of ourselves, but you are doing that. For me, anything we do on the outside is just that. Itās not going to do a whole lot on the inside. Whatās the saying?
Happiness (and self-acceptance) is an inside job. 
You couldnāt hide your beauty if you tried.
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Good morning lovely lady. Or evening in your case. Iām with @anon79808082 on this. And I know your feelings are real. That lack of self esteem devil keeps coming up to bite us all in the ass. My beautiful daughter has had feeling like that as well and still does. Her sobriety has given her strength and some self esteem back and slowly she has made changes to herself that make her happy and through her 10 years has also learned to accept some things about her self. Youāre definitely on the right path with what you are doing. Keep up the great work. One day at a time.
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Happy 89 to you.
Clever girl there. Love it.
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Awesome April! Keep it up!
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Congratulations on entering the 30 day or 1 month club. So proud of yāall. This is HUGE!! So happy to watch and see this happen. Yāall deserve to be so proud of yourselves. Go strut your stuff going up for that chip @Mychelle youāve earned it. Thatās what I would have done. Enjoy your hike @Figgie. Thatās what weāll be doing today too.
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Day 20! 10 more till a month! So thankful to not be hungover after the party yesterday. Itās kinda chilly here and Iāve still got a lingering headache so Iām taking it easy before going back to the work week tomorrow. Enjoy your Sunday!
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Oh my heart hurts for you and your family right now!! Sweet Moose. Thereās no easy way here. Hoping that youāll all find peace somehow during this. 
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Congrats on 90 days!!! So freaking awesome!
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definitly was not easy is not easy but with a community like this who can stop us