Checking In Daily To Maintain Focus #23

Congratulations on 6 months you guys @Rockstar24777. This is HUGE.

And @Tommo 100 days. Triple Figures Club.
You guys all rock.
What a great way to go into the Holidays.
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Thank you Eric!!!

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Congratulations on this milestone, Tom. Itā€™s so great to see your progress and Iā€™d say there was a quite a bit of wisdom in your post. This is what I took away from your portion about loving others and making it about them.

I show my love for others by being of service to them. In return, that has helped me to love myself more. Thatā€™s been an unexpected byproduct. Iā€™ve been able to show myself that I am a kind and caring person and I donā€™t have to continue living as selfishly as I was.

There are also times when I need some ā€œme timeā€ and I need focus on my own self care. That in return, is also beneficial to others around me, because Iā€™m showing up happier and healthier to life, when Iā€™m taking care of myself.

Congrats again on 90 Days and thanks for sharing it with us. :pray:t2:

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180 days. Have chose to view my 6 months as this Wednesday as June 16th was my first day. Iā€™m so thrilled to be at this point and am sooooo proud of @Piglet & @Rockstar24777 for inching out in front of me lol.
Congratulations @marcusmaximus2000, @WCan & @Tommo on your milestones and anyone I may have missed. TS is truly a blessing and Iā€™m so thankful for all of you. It feels so good to see so many of the same people here that were here when I joined.
I awoke this morning with what felt like an emotional hangover. It is absolutely freezing here (-25) so today seems like a good day to cover up on the couch and watch movies. Laundry is calling my name but I think I might ignore it for one more day.

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Iā€™m so happy for you. Ninety days ago, I could tell from your posts and our conversations, that you were really serious about making this change. And here you are now.

Your self awareness is really on point. But whatā€™s even better is that youā€™ve been using that awareness as an indicator of when to take action. Or to NOT take action, which I think for you and I is sometimes more important. I can relate to you because we both have had a tendency to go all in and then burnout. Sometimes is not about constantly going full throttle in fight mode, but about slowing down and rolling with the punches. Youā€™ve reminded me of that on more than one occasion.

Iā€™m super glad youā€™re here and part of this journey with me. :pray:t2:

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@Rockstar24777 @Piglet

Well done to both of you on your six months!

@marcusmaximus2000

Congrats on your 11 months and some change. :joy:

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@Piglet and @Rockstar24777 Huge congrats guys!!! BTW, Rockstar & Piglet, I like the sound of that. Keep going sober twins.
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Big congrats Michelle!!! And hugs. And love. And everything. Excellent work lady. Celebrate today by lazing around. On you go.

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Day 314. Nothing to say have a good day

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Day 144 booze, 55 pills
Blah
But sober

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@liv_m Iā€™m so sorry youā€™re feeling all this sadness, I hope it eases soon :pray:t2::blue_heart:
@anon27700620 we all care what you have to say, Iā€™m sorry to conversation didnā€™t go well, that really sucks, sending strength :pray:t2:
@Rockstar24777 great post, I can feel your strength and positive outlook from here, you are a total badass :muscle:t2: and congrats on 6 months :tada:
@bluejai congrats on your soberversary! :star2::tada:
@Misokatsu yay, hi Noisy :smile_cat:
@apes2020 take all the time you need, try a few different things out, see what sticks and feels good for your soul :pray:t2:
@Drave congrats on 2 weeks :tada:
@Joy so sorry for your pain, sensing strength and prayers :pray:t2::blue_heart:
@Tommo congrats on :100: :star2::tada:
@WCan congrats on 90 :tada:

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Thank you @CapriciousCapricorn!!

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Hahahahha thatā€™s awesome Menno thank you!!!

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Thanks Michelle Iā€™m glad youā€™re a part of my journey!!!

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@Piglet congrats on 6 months :tada:
@cwak All of my using was done in secret too, but coming here I feel part of an amazingly supportive collective, and I donā€™t feel alone :raised_hands:t2:
@marcusmaximus2000 congrats on 11+ months :tada:

93 days.

Another rainy day here. I did make it out for one short 15min walk, it was painful but it really does bring me a sense of calm to have been out, even for such a short while. Will continue with this.

Itā€™s been 26 hours since I had a cigarette, I was struggling after 3 hours but then remembered I had a box tucked away in a kitchen cupboard with a vape and loads of new bottles of flavour liquid, that I impulsively purchased right before quitting in March, so Iā€™ve been using that, and I feel absolutely fine, not craving cigs one bit, vape tastes so much better so I enjoy it more, and atleast all the nasty chemicals and tar arenā€™t entering my body. I will use the liquids Iā€™ve got, then start tapering down and quit gradually. Itā€™s a step in the right direction I feel.

Sending many hugs out to anyone who wants or needs one :hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:

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Checking in at 3 weeks. I started thinking that I will be close to 6 weeks around new years and 9 weeks around my birthday. Keeping my eyes on the prize.

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This is awesome, Michelle! I know youā€™ve had some trials at home over this last 180 days but youā€™re making it through and choosing recovery each day. Glad youā€™re here, my friend. :grinning:

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Thank you @CATMANCAM!

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Present wrapping without spiked eggnog! Gloomy out, but staying focused - maybe workout later. Happy sober Sunday allšŸ’—

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Nailed it! And the love we get in return, if we are truly lucky, is worth EVERYTHING. Massive congrats and a giant virtual hug on your TRIPLE DIGITS man! Iā€™m stepping on your heels the whole way, but not in an annoying way :wink: Sending much love and respect!

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