Checking in daily to maintain focus #28

Thx @Lisa07 :pray::hugs:

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Thanks dear.
Blessings and sobriety!
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Congratulations @Eleven17 thatā€™s AWESOME!!! :sunglasses::metal:t2:

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Checking in day 11, no alcohol.
Was up at 8:30 this morning, which is WILD for me on a weekend day lol. I didnā€™t even know Saturday started before 11amā€¦Took a shower, cleaned the kitchen, and at around 10am took the kiddos out for Wawa breakfast and a little hour long walk on this nature trail near our house. They were so confused when I woke up and started making plans with them lol. They were so happy, tho. It made me happy and a bit ashamed that Iā€™ve neglected weekend mornings with them for so long.

Anyways, itā€™s gorgeous out here in Jersey today. Sunny and 64Ā° and itā€™s so crazy that Iā€™m up and out to enjoy it. Gonna try to be outside as much as possible for the rest of the day.

Happy Saturday, everyone!

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I love my friends, but hate that they always drink when we hang out

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Day 7. Stopped again on 3/21/21. 3 21 has a nice countdown feel to it, so, Iā€™ll make it work. Last night I watched ā€œThe sound of metalā€.
I took away this from it. Recovering addict faced with a life changing event that could have put him in a downward spiral. In the end he learned to accept his new situation as that was the only way to go forward. So many people are crushed by the harsh reality of life yet they continue to fight to stay on the right track. We can all do the same.
Also I have been watching on prime, ā€œBritish Bouncersā€, which highlights the very ugly side of drinking. Not that any of us need any reminders but itā€™s a good outside looking in view of drunks and their behavior. Possible Triggers.
Anyway thought Iā€™d share if anybody was looking for something to watchā€¦

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284 days. Spent yesterday tidying the house with the girls and then having an activity afternoon. It was a great day all around. Although the one roommate is still a putz Iā€™m slowly getting better at not responding. It becomes difficult at times as he takes everything so personally and believes all conversation is about him. My oldest stepdaughter has started requesting ā€œprivate talksā€ with me to vent about the same roommate. She is frustrated by his interference and wants me basically to tell him to back off. I have told her to come see me or her Dad right when things are said by the roommate so we can address it. Somehow the Mama Bear combines with my badass bitch and defending my girl cubs is priority. Wouldnā€™t have ever thought I would be mothering children again but Iā€™m actually loving it. Keeping my focus family oriented has been a key to a great week. Headed to the shower now and off for a roadtrip with my girlfriend to see a healer. Wish I was participating in the healing process but maybe next time. Today I will just enjoy the company and time away from home.

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@I.cant.We.can congrats on 4 months smoke freešŸŽ‰
@Jennajen Congrats on 9 months :tada:
@Misokatsu sorry about your fall and the memories that it bought up, I hope youā€™re okay :pray:t2:
@Soundlab congrats on 70 days :tada:
@Eleven17 congrats on 60 days :tada:
@jms sending strength :pray:t2:
@funnydad congrats on your week :tada:

229 days no alcohol.
197 days no cocaine.
3 days no binge-eating.

Iā€™ve been waking up consistently early at 5:30am since the clocks changed a week ago, Iā€™m loving it. Iā€™ve been spending the first 2 hours reading the fiction series I was reading a month or so back, happy to have picked that back up, finished book 3 of 7 today. Then I tackled all of my other storage boxes and Iā€™m letting so much stuff go, it feels amazing. Tomorrow I will start on the stuff thatā€™s on the floor of my wardrobe and also the shelf at the top, itā€™s built in so itā€™s pretty spacious, hopefully Iā€™ll condense it all as I definitely wonā€™t have this space in a free standing wardrobe when I buy one for the new flat.

Getting stuff done makes me feel good :smiley:

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Got a little too excited catching this today (hubby & daughter included). 5 is my daughterā€™s favorite number so thatā€™s probably why.
@C_8 I finally caught one worth tagging you.

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ae334105286ccf59bfa7593db619d4af13739fad130187fddae0c78df1df92d3.0

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Thank you Joy! You are definitely one of my inspirations. I remember coming here in my early days and sayingā€¦ā€œI want what she has.ā€ Youā€™ve always been such a beautiful ray of sunshine on this forum.

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Thank you, Laura! :kissing_heart:

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Nice, i give all those 5ā€™s a 10 :ok_hand: :open_hands::muscle:

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Thank you, Dan the man!!

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Nice catch!!! Congrats on 555.55!!

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Thank you, Maggie :kissing_heart:

Congrats :tada::confetti_ball::rainbow:

Comgrats Lisa :revolving_hearts::dizzy::v:

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almost 33333.33 dollars too!

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Day 223 , happy saturday everyone :confetti_ball::two_hearts::dizzy:

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