Checking in daily to maintain focus #29

Little update from earlier post today about having a hard time fighting the voice telling me to drink wine in the Sun. I feel much better now, No drinking! :raised_hands:

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I made the mistake of reading their investigation. Apparently Iā€™m The Spawn of Satan according to tweenie and her mother. They didnā€™t literally said it but theyā€™re blaming exactly everything on me. Itā€™s my fault that my husband tweenies Pa hasnā€™t been ā€œIn her lifeā€ which he has been all the time but the Ma have tried to stop him.

Itā€™s ny fault that tweenie doesnā€™t have access to her computer here because sheā€™s doing inappropriate things online.

Itā€™s my fault that she doesnā€™t get the food she wants, in fact she might not even get food if you read it carefully and believe me she does. She eats more than I do. But we limit sweets and tries to limit her so she wonā€™t eat until she throws up.

Itā€™s also my fault that she feels sad and lonely and doesnā€™t feel welcome here.

And I claim that she shoplifted but thereā€™s no proof (except for the surveillance cameras in the stores)

Ah and did I mention that itā€™s my fault that she doesnā€™t like me and have to move and tried to kill me too.

Itā€™s also my fault that she canā€™t live with her Ma, and that her sister at her Maā€™s place have said that if tweenie comes back to their house sheā€™ll move and never come back (She had to move in the first place because she tried to kill her sister with a huge knife)

Besides that itā€™s also my fault that tweenie doesnā€™t want to talk to her psychologist.

Last but not least itā€™s most definitely my fault that my husband, tweenies Pa doesnā€™t do exactly as tweenie and her mother wish because yep you guessed it, Iā€™m in charge her and Iā€™ve probably hexes him.

Iā€™ve filed my complain against their investigation, I had decided not to at first. But Iā€™m to tired of taking anymore of their shit. Pick a fight with Spawn of Satan and sheā€™ll evoke The Devil himself and raise Hell for fun. Well not really, but I might invite a few tiny demons to stay by my side,they can be useful if I need to hex again :joy:

Over and out.

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went to the shooting range my favorite spot favorite hobby I shot the hell out of Bob today I needed that :sunglasses:

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Oh for fuck sake. Surely professionals would see red flags if everything was only one personā€™s fault?? Surely they would see a scapegoat set up??
I admire you Sophia for doing the best you can and staying sober. You are gold girl!!! :yellow_heart::yellow_heart::yellow_heart:

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Thank you. Well it wouldā€™ve been great if it worked that way. But youā€™ve followed along and you know that the Ma is good at manipulating people. Luckily she doesnā€™t have the last word in this investigation neither does the social workers. My complaints and the final decision goes straight to their bosses. Right now theyā€™ve set the final goal that tweenie eventually is going to move back to her mother. Iā€™ll be here leaning back in my chair watching when that wonā€™t work either.

If they donā€™t want to listen and prefer to blame me, I hopes karma get them all good eventually.

I hope everything is well with you dear :heart:

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@apes2020 congrats on double digits :tada:
@MrsOdh unbelievable :roll_eyes: I admire your strength through all of this!

252 days no alcohol.
220 days no cocaine.

Feel a little worried that there have only been 38 new check ins in the last 24hrs. I hope everyone is doing okay :blue_heart:

I made 24 phone calls and sent 5 emails this morning, all before midday. (To change my address). Iā€™ve also travelled to my hometown because my doctorā€™s surgery said I had to fill in a form for them to change my address so I went there and did that, luckily I already was going there today to collect my repeat medications, so that was convenient timing. So now Iā€™m all up to date with everything regarding moving. It feels so good to have everything sorted out, and Iā€™m really proud of myself. The sale proceeds also cleared and I have paid my debts :raised_hands:t2:

Thursday will be great because I will have WiFi back in my life, the new WiFi hub should arrive before then so all I have to do is plug in and go :crossed_fingers:t2::slightly_smiling_face:

Itā€™s been so good to be busy and productive every day for the past month, I donā€™t know quite what I will do with myself from tomorrow onwards, Iā€™d like to start getting back out for walks, so may try to find my way on foot to the nature reserve that is around this area somewhere, I also now live right by a lake so I will atleast take a walk around that. When Iā€™m walking I listen to audiobooks, so it will be good to get into those too.

All is very peaceful and I am feeling so very grateful :raised_hands:t2:

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Garbage dayā€¦just found out (notified by attorney) that my ex has filed for custodyā€¦so I guess it is time for round 2! Honestly I feel I have a decent case, it is a lot of financial concern with not being able to afford a lawyer etc. Luckily I am clear headed and can work through it all. Send some good vibes my way folks!

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Looks like youā€™ve had a very busy day. Iā€™m glad youā€™re doing well :blush:

My case, unbelievable yes,unfortunately that doesnā€™t make it less true. But hopefully everything will sort itself out eventually. Someone, sometime, somewhere should be able to see what I see now. At least I hope so.

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Awesome, I wish I could do that where I live too.
Itā€™s been years since I practiced my shooting skills. (If you can call it skills when a hunting rifle is all you know how to use :joy:)

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Favorite hobby it just takes me to onother place and nothing like the smell at the end of the barrel but thatā€™s me :smiley: Hunting Rifle ? Awesome !! I bet you do just fine I still need practice myself

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Iā€™m Swedish so it might be called something else in English. But yes the kind of rifle you use for hunting,you know like shotguns and things like that. (Fun Fact, shotgun is sometimes called a moose bouncer-Ƥlgstudsare in Swedish :joy:)

My Grandpa when he was alive and my Pa when he was younger used to hunt just about everything that was in season year around. And Iā€™m a country girl, when I was a kid we got permission to skip school so we could come along hunting,especially in the fall for the moose hunt.

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Nicee ! You would have alot of fun here in the states thatā€™s something I would love to get into next is Hunting Iā€™ve never been hunting before that is an awesome name Moose Bouncer :sunglasses:

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Weā€™ve got friends and family in Memphis. And we absolutely love US. Last time we where over for a visit and got to the shooting range I out shot everybody in our group. :joy:
And the American food and and snacks, dear lord. Itā€™s a huge difference compared to Sweden.

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Checking in on day 4:
Had a meal, took a shower and got a few things done. Setting one foot in front of the other. Still very low energy and confused, so going to bed early is what Iā€™ll do. Hope everybody is having a good day, reading through the forum kept me somewhat grounded today, so thank you.

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One last check in before sleep. Or maybe a check out. The more I think about the social service investigation, the more upset I become. I thought Iā€™d be just fine being their Villain but Iā€™m most certainly not fine with it.

I donā€™t want to be the bad guy, I want to be the lovable hero that everyone adores. But I guess thatā€™s not possible for anyone in this story, accepting for maybe tweenies Ma that raises herself above everyone else.

But in most stories the Villain is just misunderstood, and not really a bad guy, right?

Iā€™m going to call my therapist tomorrow, I need to find out why this is bugging me so much, because I wonā€™t let it destroy me.

Goodnight everyone.

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Well done keep putting in that action and amazing things can happen :grin:

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Sorry for the drama youā€™re dealing with. Iā€™ll keep you in my thoughts and hope that everything works out fine.

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Thank you :heart:
Thatā€™s actually what Iā€™m hoping for, that karma will hit eventually and people will see what I see. But right now it feels like I want to help karma :joy:

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Congratulations @CATMANCAM!! You have great things going on in your super sober life!!

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