Checking in daily to maintain focus #29

Thank you, you are the sweetest. What a lovely post, so thoughtful

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  1. Ms. Monkey and I have been together for 9 months today. The only way I have those 9 months with herā€¦sobriety. I read relapse threadsā€¦in the beginning relapse seems so damn easy. It seems like a fight to stay sober. For me it was a battle. Todayā€™s 9 month anniversary is one of many reasons I am so happy I fought that fight in the beginning.

If you are facing a relapse, just know that if you fight through it and dont give inā€¦you are giving yourself a great futureā€¦probably one you cannot even imagine.

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I love that little guy!!! Thanks for the nature fix!

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Good morning. 4 month check in. Strong in sobriety and strong in becoming the woman I am proud of.

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Congratulations on 4 months!! Keep up all the hard work :+1:

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Iā€™m checking in on day 324, excited and grateful for another week of sobriety.

Taking back everything alcohol took from me, one day at a time :muscle:

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Good morning. Lots of folks racking up some SERIOUS numbers. I am joyfully on Day 60. There is no way I will not be crowing ā€œI have Sixty Daysā€ tomorrow. I just feel good these days. I get a great deal out of this place. Just reading and relating several times a day. It is making a difference every single day.

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Day 14 sober. I am cautious about my progress. Almost every milestone is triggering. Specially week 2 or week 3

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Feeling as though I need to do more to help others. My job is truly rewarding in that department but I donā€™t need to be paid to make others feel good. I hope you all have a wonderful today. Keep shining :heart:

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Day 21 Feeling tired after going for walks on Sunday and Monday. Iā€™m definitely out of shapeā€¦lol. Now off to work, have a good day everyone!!

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That is so great to hear, April. My recovery has been strengthened so much by working the steps. I wish the same for you!

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Day 326 clean and sober today. Registered for classes yesterday then went and talked to the director of the program. He said he hasnā€™t heard from the big boss yet so Iā€™m going to back off for awhile and let things happen as they are meant to be in their own time. So proud of all of us doing this recovery thing together ODAAT. I really love you guys, have a kick ass day!!! :sunglasses::metal:t2:

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Congratulations @Mbwoman, @MagicMama and @Thirdmonkey great job!!! Really happy for you @apes2020 and good job @Bomdhil! Also proud of @Complicatedmama for making it through clean and sober, good luck on getting your house!!!

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Proud of you @Tomek!!! :sunglasses::metal:t2:

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Aww, thanks L! I have been lurking occasionally for a little over a week. Posting very sparsely or in private. I will forever love this place and I am totally grateful for the path that TS set me on. But I have been leaning on my program, my HP and my sponsor a lot more lately and my life is full. It is paying dividends in so many areas of my life but Iā€™m not sure if I will make Regular status with my inability to keep up with the forum. :crazy_face:

:v::yellow_heart:

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@apes2020 So happy to hear you have programming in place. I really hope itā€™s a good fit and the added support youā€™ve been looking for.
@Complicatedmama Awesome job on the disposal and congratulations on placing an offer on a house.
@SoberWalker Happy to see you back Claudia and looking forward to your updates.
@Thirdmonkey Happy anniversary to you & Ms Monkey.
@MagicMama Congratulations on 4 months Maggie. Miss you lady :kissing_heart:
@Mbwoman Congratulations on 60 days
@Bomdhil Congratulations on two weeks. Give yourself credit for where you are & continue fighting the good fight one day at a time.
@Licorice Congratulations on 3 weeks.

322 days. Hit a bit of a snag with our sitter and wonā€™t be starting my new job until tomorrow. It is what it is but Iā€™d be lying if I said I wasnā€™t at least a lil disappointed. Online learning will start soon and I need to hop in the shower and reframe my mind. Awoke feeling irritated with no reason other than thoughts of the roommate. Iā€™m determined to get through ā€œthisā€ the best I can but will feel so much better once a date has been set for his residency here to end. My man had a ā€œtalkā€ with him about his attitude toward me and the small talk that ensued yesterday was more annoying than anything. I havenā€™t experienced this desire of avoidance with someone since I was in elementary school and itā€™s annoying as f*$k. I feel weak for having this desire and related feelings and may need to reach out for help to positively get myself through it.

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I love this Tony. Very well put.
It is amazing how we will cut ourselves down. But we would go to bat and praise everyone else for even just a single day. I hope I can remember this if I see someone being negative about their days of sobriety. Every day is a freakin gift and an accomplishment.
Canā€™t wait to celebrate with you.
:pray:t2::heart:

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Congratulations on your 3 weeks Licorice.
Thatā€™s terrific. Great job :clap:
:pray:t2::heart:

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What are you doing different this time Rich?

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Congratulations on your first full day Kris.
I always have trouble thinking Iā€™m not drinking permanently. To tell you the truth forever scares the shit out of me. All I know is Iā€™m not drinking today! And Iā€™m probably not drinking tomorrow. And thatā€™s worked for me from day 1 to day 488. Iā€™m glad you found this place too. Itā€™s worked wonders for me.
:pray:t2::heart:

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