I hope you did something special for yourself 
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That’s really shit Claudia 
you can report them though, maybe they’ll stop trying on other profiles then…
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I know I can report it to a moderator Menno and @Becsta , but they do it sneaky and they delete their part of the conversation fast if they notice I’m not interested. It mostly starts with a normal “how do you do?”. Also because of the language barrier I’m not so good in picking up the signs and I’m affraid to misjudge someone for it’s intentions 
I hate it to think a bad thing about it on front.
But this week I had 2 in one row and that makes me angry about it. I’m carefull with showing my face up here, so if I get those messages what will the girls who show their faces and bodies here get? 
I discovered one thing that helps: telling them I’m old! 
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So that’s even worse really. Where’s smoke there’s fire. I think the mods are pretty apt at judging this sort of behaviour. And this place should not be a source of negative emotions. So my advice remains to report. Anyways, beautiful day today, have a good one friend!
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So great to see this Donna! Huge congrats!!
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You too Menno and thank you for thinking with me. Much appreciated.
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I hadn’t planned on it, but its name will be Kermit!
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Now this is stucked in my mind 
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And that’s what you should focus on, one day at a time. At day 1 even day 3 sounds daunting but you’ve just got to grit your teeth and take it like champ and it will stick. Initially it’s not easy but it’s damn worth it Julia. Sending you strength.
Blessings and sobriety!
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I will have to find some Kermit decals!
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Checking in Day 3. Feeling like OK. Last cuople of days been f***** pissed at my husband always making a mess, not cleaning after him self and dropping clothes and stuff anywhere. So today I clean everything like normal and picking up after Kids, not his. All his plates and stuff I did not touch. Vaccuming around his things, not putting them in place. 
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Girl 
Congrats! You deserve every single second of this. You worked for it and never ever gave up. Looking forward to another year on this journey with you.
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Good morning everyone checking on day 1 and yes I’m really back. I know I’ve said this several times now and honestly I didn’t really want it when I was saying it, it really was like a little game in my mind of how long I can control it. But I see I’m losing interest in everything I’ve started, I didn’t go to my daughter’s first day of tball practice yesterday which is something sober mike wouldn’t of missed. No more excuses, I woke up this morning and let my mother know I felt harder then I’ve admitted, but I really do mean it now I’m done it’s time to take my will back, time to switch the friends up, time to start healing again. I will seriously be hitting my meetings up and checking in on it, posting if I’m struggling and need help. But it really is time to put the ego aside and get back on track. Much love everyone, have a good day
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Great news, Mike, you sound committed and clear headed. You’ve got lots of DMs to lean on, too, ya know Welcome back.
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Ha ha, that’s an honor! 
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Day 18 (+250 -1 lapse): I enjoyed the sound of a steady, calm summer rain all through the night and into this morning. It’s such a lovely sensation, windows open, petrichor wafting in and giving one a sense of renewal. It’s like how I feel now after some time here with my family. I feel like my heart and soul are finding real peace and serenity. I feel it in my body, in the relaxing of my jaw, shoulders, and worry lines in my brow, and I wake up each morning feeling a bit more at ease. I am so grateful for this time. Family “rehab” is doing the trick. Sending my love out to you, amigos.
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Thank you, sweetie! I appreciate that so much. I think that the struggle to get here is why I’m so happy and proud!
If I can do it it is not impossible! 
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