Checking in daily to maintain focus #31 (Part 1)

Checking in on Day 77. 11 weeks :partying_face:

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Day 47 for the 4th time. I canā€™t wait to hit day 70 for the first time ever.

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Iā€™m really glad to hear this! I wish you the best with everything.

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Good morning TSā€¦ 88th morning alcohol freeā€¦was gonna put 88th morning without a hangover but thatā€™s not strictly true cos of the first couple of weeksā€¦:pray::fist_right::fist_left::pray:ā€¦
Donā€™t pick up no matter what, :star::rocket::rocket::rocket:

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Day 859

Feeling pretty good this morning. Iā€™ve been struggling with back pain a lot recently and although itā€™s still around I feel a bit looser today. Fingers crossed itā€™s moving in the right direction.

Iā€™ve also managed to shift most of the lock down weight Iā€™ve put on. Not a huge amount, 5/6 kilos, but I have felt it both mentally and physically. And found it difficult the lose. As someone that has always had problems with weight/body image itā€™s significant. So weighing in sub 70kg felt great.

Have a good day folks :+1:

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Thanks alot Chris for your kind words! Hope your doing alright yourself too!

You rock !!! Missed you and glad to see you doing wel.

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@adeygaga49 congratulations with your half a year mark Adrienne! :confetti_ball:
Welcome back @Kmcc123 :facepunch:

Day 1016 :coffee:
Still thinking about the situation yesterday with my eldest son (drank this much that he ended up in hospital with alcohol intoxication).
I talked about it with some friends and I heared lotā€™s of stories about other kids/adults who ended their party in a hospital like my eldest did.
Iā€™m an addict. I had my share of black outs, bruises, trowing up, etc but never had to go to a hospital. How much do you have to drink for that? Ore how fast? Ore do I think to simple?
And what surprised me as well is how normal lotā€™s of people think about this.
I had a conversation with my 3 kids about it (18, 20 and 21). The all have one ore more friends who has had the hospital experience. Even one who has had her stomache pumped out.
My son needed a intravenous drip. The downside of that (in my opinion) is that he had not much of an hangover the next day :pensive:
I really hope he has learned. Fingers crossed :crossed_fingers:
I hope there comes a big bill from use of ambulance and hospital to give him a strong reminderā€¦
I canā€™t do more then giving him a good example and sharing my thoughts with him.
Today Iā€™m sober :heavy_heart_exclamation:

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So happy for your statsā€¦
Ik hoop dat ook alles wat je eerder deelde een goede weg vind, sterker nogā€¦ Ik weet.

Further Just checking in for today and for who is interested :

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Thanks, glad youā€™re back and well. Missed your input here. Letā€™s do this mate, odaat.

Blessings and sobriety!
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  1. Coffee. My long weekend is here. It just started, still in my bed, with an old fashioned pang of anxiousness, seeing before me some tasks Iā€™ve been putting of -oldfashionedly- for too long. Now recognizing the feeling of cramping up, feeling the knot in my stomach tightening, and remembering how Iā€™ve dealt with this stuff for decades. Which is by procrastinating even more, pushing away the anxiousness, learning to forget and avoid and distract by doing other stuff like drugging and boozing, or reading or watching tv or internet or porn, instead of actually facing up to what I have to face.
    Going to change that right now and going to actually do some stuff instead of pushing it to the back of my mind. So off I go. Have a good day all. Sober and clean. Love from a cool cloudy Amsterdam.

    @Fnkychic Hope the doc can help you with some relief JF. Back pain is the worst.
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Drink and drugs are not the problem, You are the problem and these are your solution. There is another solution. Good morning :+1:

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Thank you for your kind words. I hope your back appointment later goes well and that you find some relief also.

Iā€™ve had issues with my neck/right shoulder for years, but Iā€™ve done something to my lumbar this time. Iā€™m stretching well throughout the day and lying flat on a hard floor which helps. Iā€™m hoping Iā€™ve just torn something (it does feel muscular) and that it will heal on itā€™s own :crossed_fingers:

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Girl!!! congrats to you. Time flies when youā€™re having fun. Life is sooooo much better sober. Youā€™re so inspiring and you deserve all the happyā€™s of all the happyā€™s in the world (and heck, take them moon happyā€™s too) :heart::heartpulse::heart:

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@Misokatsu thanks for your understanding!!! Yes! For me is one of the greatest things I can offer, I dedicate time to think about a particular person or situation and speak about it with Jesus. Day 7. I feel grateful

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Good Morning Day two :sunny:

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@Jennajen I will miss you

Hello friends. Checking in on day 20. Having coffee and listening to a bunch of crows arguing with one another outside. I had a weird dream about rats last night. There were, like, five rats living in my room and I was trying to figure out how to get rid of them. I ended up getting some rat poison, but then I started feeling really guilty for killing the poor rat. I was happy to wake up to a rat-free room :rofl:

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Successful on so many different levels! Good job, man. And iced tea is the bomb.

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Hey all, checking in on day 382 alcohol free.

Iā€™m reading a book on optimism, written by the guys who created the Life is Good T-shirt company and there was a great concept that I wanted to share with you guys; itā€™s focused on being grateful.

The basic idea is to live your life with the phrase ā€œget toā€ always in mind. For exampleā€¦Instead of saying or thinking I ā€œhave toā€ go to work. You think I ā€œget toā€ go to work because there are people who would do anything for a job.

The principle can really apply to anything. I ā€œget toā€ go shop for food in a well stocked grocery store instead of I ā€œhave toā€ go get groceries.

Iā€™m sure you guys get the idea. Anyway, Iā€™ve been trying to live with that mindset for a few days now and it really does make a difference. Just wanted to share with you guys.

Today I get to be sober for another beautiful day where I wonā€™t miss a thing.

Have a great one guys :metal:

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