Checking in daily to maintain focus #36

Good morning
Whew, we made it!
I successfully got thru Christmas Eve and Christmas Day without alcohol. I’m not gonna lie, Christmas afternoon on the deck was somewhat haunted by the ghost of wine, but I shook her off and went for a walk.

And here I am up early just as I love and about to get that first taste of coffee.

I decided I love this rental spot in Tybee island so much that I reserved it for next year already! Merry Christmas to the hubby and me again. Shopping is done! Hehehe

Today we will get into Savannah for a boat tour and brunch I think.

Then more relaxing and eating some of the good food I cooked yesterday. This little house has an excellent kitchen, so that was fun for me.

I hope everyone feels peace today. I always feel a sense of relief when Christmas is over. Yup, I’m still very haunted by the ghost of Christmas anxiety. I’m not sure that will ever go away.

Peace to you.

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Congratulations JP on 3 months this is wonderful. I hear the joy in your read. Freedom is possible. Amen. Keep at it.:pray:t5:

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awsome three days barely reaching two :grin:

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Day 26! Wonderful Sober Christmas. Thanking my Higher Power and this forum for your prayers and support. Ready for another serene day. Hitting a virtual meeting now 30/90. Great day all.,:pray:t5:,

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I don’t know ur family situation, how it would be accepted, but how about “owning” the anxiety? It is ok to be anxious, ok for others to notice. If someone says “u seem off” say “yes, I am feeling a bit overwhelmed” or whatever. Brene Brown’s book ‘the gift of imperfection’ was great about this. u drank because u felt anxiety was something to be ashamed of. it isn’t.

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Morning all, checking in on day 41. Took a ride down to Jersey to spend the day with family for Xmas yesterday. Had a good time. Me and the wife drove home late last night, we left the kids there to hang out with their cousins for a couple days since everybody’s on Xmas break from school. They all drink but it’s like a couple beers or maybe a glass or two of wine, you know like responsible adults. I on the other hand woulda drank 20 beers, had shots, not even enjoy the food. And than have to rely on my wife to drive back cause I’m hammered. Wake up feeling shitty, etc. etc. Than just start the process all over again. I’m really thankful for the opportunity to be able to get sober, and for all of you for putting your shit out there, and providing inspiration and encouragement. Hope yous all had a great holiday. Much love. :v:

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Checking in 90 days sober. Cup of coffee in hand and putting together a little bagel spread, lox and all. My happy place. It’s my last day of vacation and with my family. We’re going to a little beach town called Dunedin. I hope everyone has a relaxing day :yellow_heart:

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I too was gifted and I regifted mucho boozeo. Maybe next year I’ll get a teapot or teacozy :joy:

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Hey all, checking in on day 560. I hope everybody has a good one today!

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Day 83 Yesterday turned out shockingly, not horrible. :rofl: I am grateful it’s done and over but it feels like I leveled up on a video game. Next level: New Years :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: No worries. I didn’t drink yesterday and I ain’t drinking today or on New Years.

@anon52066378 :tada: :partying_face: :sparkles: Congrats on your 4 weeks!! :sparkles: :partying_face: :tada:
@Callie99 @RecoveringJP :boom: :tada: :sparkles: 90 days!!! Congratulations!!! :sparkles: :tada: :boom:
@YeeYeeViking :dizzy: :partying_face: :sparkles: 11 months is amazing!!! :sparkles: :partying_face: :dizzy:
@Eleven17 :boom: :partying_face: 333 is looking good on you! :partying_face: :boom:

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Congratulations on those 90 days!

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Thank you @Misokatsu, @TigerMatriarch , and at @Hopeful777 . I appreciate you guys very much seriously thank you helping me feel a little more normal. Much love guys have a great day

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Day 39

Feeling good. Little tired this morning. Everyone have a wonderful day

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Thank you we had a good night, read them they’re new bed time stories, made us some Icey hot cocoa with whip cream…. Which anyone who wants some amazing treat, 2 cups ice, 2 tbsp cocoa, 1 cup heavy cream, half cup- milk, tsp or little more vanilla extract blend well and then top with some whip cream… you’re welcome lol

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Checking in day 2
Just about to eat and later watch a football game.
Hope you enjoy your sunday guys.
@SelfLove_42 thanks for the support. Its because of you and other I keep moving forward and not give up. Hope you are doing well and enjoyed your christmas night.

Goodnight

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Morning check in
Happy holidays everyone! I missed everyone’s check ins recently :frowning: the holidays were soo good but sooo crazy. Sooo busy. I’m sort of glad it’s over in a way so we can relax now. How was everyone’s holidays??? Hopefully they weren’t too stressful :frowning: I still feel so tired lol but I receieved alot of self care stuff (bath salts, lotions, hair products etc). It was nice! Anyway, going to get going this morning and have some coffee :coffee: I really hope every single person on here has an amazing 2022. That we are all free from our addictions. That we are safe and healthy and that we get the things in life we need :pray: luv to all! Going to read on TS for abit and look at everyone’s check ins etc. Hugs!

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You are so welcome!! You only have to do the “firsts” once. So there’s that. :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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Good morning everyone!!! I haven’t had a chance to read everyone’s posts yet but wanted to pop in and say :wave:. I am having the best Christmas even with everything going on around me and I am beyond grateful!! No bad news since Thursday, everyone is happy and full of love, I couldn’t ask for anything more :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: I hope everyone is good and in a good place :heart: Another busy day in front of me which is awesome! I hope you all have the most amazing day!

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Congrats on your 90 days :tada::confetti_ball::balloon::heart: I am so happy for you and I hope you celebrate this milestone because you deserve it!

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Hey Kevin :slight_smile: I’m still here. Sorry things have been so crazy lmao but they are slowly down now that Christmas is over. How are YOU? How was your Christmas?

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