Checking in daily to maintain focus #38

This sounds great :+1: I love that bit where you see yourself as a woman in recovery not as a drinker or relapsed. Looking forward to getting there again and I love when not drinking is normal and it seems MAD to drink rocket fuel after a work out

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I checkin as much as I need to :slight_smile: I usually strive for 3 times a day, morning, midday, and night. But when I struggle I check in OFTEN. It helps just to talk stuff out ya know? :slight_smile: and thank u! I had such a hard time seeing myself as someone in recovery. I couldnā€™t passed 3 days for the life of me. And now my longest streak was 25 days! Obviously I relapsed once after that cuz Iā€™m at 11 now. But I donā€™t consider myself a chronic relapser anymore :slight_smile:

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@Pickles Congratulations !!

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Congratulations! Thatā€™s a huge milestone. Keep up the good work :muscle: :pray: :partying_face:

@kat261 and for you as welā€¦ Congratulations with your :six: months. What a amazing numbers,
very inspirational! :ok_hand: :partying_face: :star_struck:

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You are doing great! Proud of you. Keep adding those numbers Dana! :muscle: :pray:

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Amazing! Well Iā€™ll be at one weeek on Saturday and I canā€™t wait to get through the weekend.

Also considering not going to the gym tonight as Iā€™ve just finished work but I know that if I go I will feel better and not going will not get me where I need to be!

Tough to balance rest, self care and staying driven!

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I wasnā€™t going to check in until Day 40 - but here I am with a miracle hack on Day 36 with the most amazing Pinterest thing I ever found. I was about to freak out on both of my kids and myself and throw it ALL OUT.

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Thank you!!!

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Seems to me a choice between two different kinds of self care. What is the best care for yourself today? Check in as often as you want and need Freckles. Itā€™s for you. You do what is good for you.

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Huge congrats @Pickles! A full year is the best!
Also thank you for making me think of one of my favourite MSN messenger emojiā€™s :smirk:

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Thank you! I chose pasta and home and yoga. I could have worked out and should have but itā€™s gonna be yoga I think x

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Just make sure to enjoy your choice!

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Brilliant - well done. You should feel very proud :clap:

Day 150 today, still here, still sober.
Letā€™s Get It!!:facepunch:

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@SoberWalker happy sober birthday! :balloon::birthday::gift::partying_face:
@apes2020 Iā€™m so pleased and proud that you have found a new peaceful place for a fresh start, you deserve it :blue_heart::star2:
@Misokatsu thank you :blue_heart:
@Its_me_Stella I thought of you sharing a similar experience while it was happening, and you know what, your share, and hearing that you pulled yourself out, probably had a lot to do with me finding the strength to do the same for myself, so thank you for being a guiding light :blue_heart::candle:
@Twizzlers congrats on handling a previously stressful situation in a new way :tada:
@Hopeful777 thank you :blue_heart:
@Mno thank you :blue_heart:
@Pickles this was amazing to read, so pleased for and proud of you. Congrats on your year :tada::star2::trophy:
@anon53116147 sorry youā€™re feeling down, I know itā€™s gonna suck on Sept 11th when it would have been my 2 years too, but hey, weā€™re sober now right, and we will get there :slightly_smiling_face: I hope you can get your girlā€™s insurance sorted :pray:t2:
@kat261 congrats on 6 months :tada:

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@Bran522 congrats on 30 days :tada:
@KevinesKay congrats on winning the battles and triple digits :100::tada:
@Deep congrats on double digits :tada:
@Grumpybeard congrats on 150 days :tada:

542 days no alcohol.
7 days no cocaine.
4 days no binge-eating.

In regards to my addict, I am grateful to have had a day of peace from him, I think heā€™s sulking in a corner of my mind somewhere. It has been so nice, really it has.

Happy to be at a milestone, though every day sober and alive is an absolute miracle.

My bladder operation was the worst pain Iā€™ve been through possibly ever, a kind nurse held my hand as I screamed through each of the needle penetrations into my bladder lining. It has never hurt that much before, it was a different surgeon than I usually have, but Iā€™ve also been diagnosed with Fibromyalgia since I last had the op, and that changes the way I experience pain, so glad itā€™s over, happy to be at home recovering, only some mild tenderness now.

Had the phone call with my GP this afternoon, he is prescribing an anxiolytic medication for my anxiety, and I can collect it from the pharmacy tomorrow morning, really hoping it helps. :pray:t2:

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Thank you! Hope the new med helps!

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:partying_face::tada::heart:Outstanding!! Congratulations!!!:heart::tada::partying_face:

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Thank you!!!

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Thatā€™s how we do it, share our experience, strength and hope. You light the way for me too, all of the time.
:orange_heart::seedling:

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