Glad you understand me 
Just stick in the ānowā. Do not look ahead. Today is enough for now, you are doing great believe me! Recovery is scary I know! Changes are scary! But you will get there, day by day! Little steps! 
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So glad you went back, they found the problem and they fixed it. Wishing you continued uneventful quick healing and recovery. You will get yourself back quickly I just know it. Beautiful pic.
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Coffee. Iām sober and clean. Nothing that happens can make me drink or smoke. Only I can do that. I wonāt today. One day at a time.
Letās make today as good a day as we all can friends. However hard it is, we can make it through clean and sober. There is no alternative. Love from the Oude Kerk in Amsterdam.
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Good morning everyone. I hope that everyone is well this morning.
Over here, despite crazy rain and hail and wind yesterday, things are quite calm today, and somewhat cooler, which is not a bad thing.
By tonight, I willl be on 10 days, and thatās not a bad thing either!
By the way, after having communicated with the moderators, this account (Daishippai) is going to be anonymized, and Iām going to go back to my old account under the username Fokusnik. Not that itās of any great importance, I just wanted to let you all know.
Anyway, I hope that everyone has a good day today.
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Checking in at the end of day 38. Had a great time on my trip. Im exhausted. I have so much catching up to do! Service was real spotty in most of the places I was. So ill keep it short and share my fav part of my trip
My cousins house I was staying at, has a shower outside overlooking a meadow. I decided to use that shower at dusk, going for a whole vibe. Well, as soon as I started the shower, a doe walked out of the little treeline there and just started grazing. The whole scenario was just so peaceful. My soul was completely at ease in that moment. I have never felt so content in my life, that I can remember. It was just. Wow.
Hereās a pic of the view from the shower, I didnāt have my phone with me when the deer was out there 
but itās something Iāll never forget.
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How lovely, glad you had a great time 
Well, you know what they say about the best laid plans of mice and men.
I have now reliably been informed by the moderator that, since I canāt get access to my old e-mail account, I wiill NOT be able to resume my old Fokusnik account, which will be anonymized.
No big deal, Iām perfectly happy using this account.
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Checking in at day 267.
Just like yesterday it will be a quiet day as I have to rest. Iām really starting to think it should have been the way it is now. Now that I have stopped running I have started thinking/gaining insights. I so passed myself! The way of life that I did was also addictive behavior and I can now live according to the recovery principles. Another insight I have gained is that recovery is based on balance in your life. Balance in everything. Even the things I like I have to find a balance in because I can go too far in that. So a balance in fun and less fun things such as things that have to be done, building relaxation and tension (physical movement and rest, mental rest and effort). But I think the basic things are openness and honesty to yourself and others, tranquility and purity.
Have a nice and sober day everyone 
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Thatās great Dana! Iām reading this and realize youāre probably at 100 days now yay 
But I think itās still nighttime where you live so Iāll be keeping a close eye on the forum today so I can congratulate you 
Ohhh wow what a beautiful church. Do you come there more often?
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Day 2. Longing for a time alone in a place without internet and praying
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1 year since I last used crystal meth, boooom!
Wishing you all a wonderful day x
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Day 6 done , go8ng for that one week 7 days !
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Hey all, checking in on day 710. I hope everybody has a good one!
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Checking in one week!
Feeling great, loving this new lifestyle. Been healing the negativity and judgements Iāve kept on myself for years. All good vibes and acceptance. Itās been enlightening this go around.
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Good morning everyone! One day and 16 hours sober this morning. Yesterday was a pretty good day; stayed busy at work, went home, made dinner, then to bed early.
So, this is normal. The āday one happy-all is goodā feeling. Today work will be busy. The afternoon will be sunny. The weekend is coming and itās a long, holiday weekend.
Back storyā¦ been drinking/binge drinking since my early 20ās. I was a bartender for a number of years. Iāve been divorced twice- both marriages from one or both of us being heavy drinkers. Iāve been in an okay relationship for 6 years now and donāt want to lose it. He weed vapors and drinks daily.
Based on my drinking patterns, I know this evening will be hard, Thursday even harder, and a three day weekend will kick my a$$. Thanks for being here everyone. Have the best day possible 
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Congrats on1 year!!!
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Day 1091 alcohol free
Still learning not to take other peopleās actions towards me personallyā¦ I have a close friend who overstepped boundaries earlier tonight and Iām struggling with the emotions Iām feelingā¦ I keep reminding myself it is not about me but what they have going onā¦
This is not something I would be doing if I was still drinking. I would have immediately and indignantly retaliated, determined to hurt them backā¦
But instead, I am so grateful for my sobriety, that it gives me a clear head to process my thoughts and feelings and make me realise that the world doesnāt revolve around me and not everything is about me. They only hurt me because they are hurting, not due to anything actually involving meā¦
Sobriety has also given me boundaries. Because with sobriety also comes self worth, self respect, self dignity. Hence why Iāve decided to break out of the cycle of this other persons (escalating) behaviour towards me. Iām letting this person go. And itās shit. Itās not easy. It still hurts. Itās sad. Iām sad. But. I. Just. Canāt. Keep. Doing. It. Anymore.
I just donāt deserve it you know, and canāt keep doing itā¦
Sorry for the ramble, guess Iām just clearing my head before bed
** note to self - I need to invest in a new journal
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