Checking in daily to maintain focus #51

Checking in day 119! Starting the new year feeling good and sober :slight_smile: Working today (from home) and feels good to be able to do that without the worry of a hangover. Oof even just typing hangover I can remember what those felt like :hot_face: Anyway, hope everyone is feeling good and proud this morning! Happy 2023- let’s make this a great, sober day (and year, ODAAT) :raised_hands:t3:

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Hello all,

Checking in on Day 1,619.

Thanks

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:high_brightness: Morning Check In :high_brightness:
Day 322
Happy New Years Day to everyone! Hope everyone had a safe, addiction free evening last night. Woke up today clean and sober. Theres no other way! Was very hesitant to go to work today tho after what happened yesterday. But im going. Im sure today will be better. Just waiting until 10am now to begin my shift. Hope everyone has an addiction free day today! Happy to be starting this New Year on the right path
:butterfly:

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Have a beautiful day today :two_hearts::two_hearts:
Yesterday is over and now everyone knows she has to “be within arms reach” so it’s a learning experience. I’m sorry she ran off when you were her caregiver, but it wasn’t your fault. She made a decision to run off. It could have been anyone she ran from.

Its a new year and a new beginning. You could have some coffee and relax a little before you go in maybe? I’m sending lots of love your way :heart::heart:

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Omg my first new years day in 20 years not hungover! Wooohooo. The only negative ive experienced in the last 24 hours is running out of hearts to like comments here. I dont regret it! A morning after not full of regrets…how refreshing.

Love you all and thank you for being you

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Feeling so grateful and blessed. Sober for the first time in over a decade. One day at a time :pray:

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Day 58

Ah… Happy new years day

I’m greatful to have woke up sober

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Thank you so much! Im actually having a coffee now trying to relax :slight_smile: i always work myself up too much over stuff lol ur absolutely right tho… everyone makes mistakes. I know the right way on how to do things now, so thats good! How have u been? I havent been on here too too much. Hope ur new years went well! Hugs!

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Im so proud of you lady! I wish i could love ur post 100x over!! Have a wonderful day!

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I am still clean from substances. And had a glass of sparkling juice instead of champagne. Even though my doc isn’t alcohol. I’ll hope for a good new year. And hope you have an amazing year too :heartpulse:

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I think that was a smart choice. Way to go! Ive never had an issue with alcohol either but i do know that if i put any substance into my body, it releases my addiction all over again. So i also just avoid it. Uv made some big changes during ur recovery journey! This is one of them id say :slight_smile:

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Day 7.It’s been a while.Happy to be starting the new year Sober!!

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Congrats on your week!! Thats the toughest in my opinion. Keep checking in and taking it one day at a time @Thumper1213

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Day 0 - AF
Day 0 - free from toxic relationships
Day 0 - imperfect regular eating

2 months Milestone - no online shopping

I relapsed with everything important yesterday.

I drank.
I got in contact.
I binged food, because I underate before.

Here I am, back to zero to stay focused.

2 months no online shopping.
Will shop few things very focused and planned, that I really need in the meantime (Yoga Leggings, swim googles, fins (lost one in the atlantic)) and go on with this challenge afterwards.

Happy new year to all of you :sparkling_heart::purple_heart::revolving_hearts:
Peace!

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Congratulations on 1 week!!!

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@Unique8908 welcome :blush: congrats on 326 days :tada:
@Bear21 congrats on your week :tada:
@Miranda congrats on 4 months :tada:
@Luna2022 congratulations on the birth of your first grandchild :baby: :tada:
@Andrea4 congrats on 5 months :tada:
@Bones_80 congrats on 40 days :tada:
@Jenny1972 welcome :blush: congrats on your days so far :tada:
@Thumper1213 welcome back :blush: congrats on your week :tada:
@Juli1 sorry for the relapses, but congrats on your honesty :tada: I hope it’s all out of your system now :blue_heart:

874 days no alcohol.
339 days no cocaine.

Happy New Year! :fireworks: :sparkler:

I stopped using my vape at midnight, and I’ve been fine without it, so I’m pleased about that. I also haven’t binged today so far.

Someone has smashed through my rear windowscreen and stolen my telescopic wheelchair ramps. Very annoying. Yesterday it was anger that I was getting waves of, today it is waves of annoyance at myself for not taking them out of my car and storing them in the garage, it’s supposed to be a secure car park as well. Argh. It’s costing me £115 to replace the windowscreen, and the value of the ramps was £95. It’s being fitted on the 3rd.

I’ve mainly rested with my cats today, having a few aches and pains that are limiting what I can do. I managed to shower and trim my facial hair though so I’m feeling pleased about that.

:blue_heart:

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How do folks. 22 days sober for me and here is 2023 lets see what it brings cos 2022 really kicked me in the shins a few times.

In june my best friend of 32yrs was stabbed multiple times on her own door step by a crazed woman her husband had been having a 3yr affair with unbeknown to her. The trial for attemped murder is this year at some point this shook me to my core um just great full she survived. Then sadly in december i lost my beloved gran in my 42 yrs she is the first family member ive lost aside from pets so this really again shook me and the greif hit like nothing ive ever felt. I did slip on that day but since ive been sober and its helping me. Ive decided to try a month off chocolates, sweets and puddings cos ive been going ape on them since been going sober and im 3 days into that. Anyway ill shut up now lol catch ya later

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Day 58 sober

A bit grouchy
Is there really more good then bad in the world

Is the world so messed up it’s cool to be mean?

Like to me, it’s cool to be nice and have boundaries; not be mean

I ligit have like 4 friends
Just me and my wife mostly

Everyone that just to be my friend were cut off for a reason. And no1 wants to be at fault for their character defects which is so damn frustrating.

I guess it’s my location?

Anyway
My fault for being friends with arsholes

I’m going to be on guard today

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Thanks very much

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This is awesome! I grew up in Maine USA and sauna and snow plunge (pool or ocean if you were well off) was a standard. Spent many a high school evening warming in the sauna, cooling in the snow. Truly a magical experience. Thanks for the reminder. Merry 2023!

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