Checking in daily to maintain focus #52

Checking in with 318 days. We brought home our new little family member last night. It’s been a little bit of adjustment but nice to have a dog back in our lives again.

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Just started, had my first lesson yesterday :sweat_smile:


So no creations yet. Worked with copper wire yesterday. But I would love to see your creations! How long are you doing this?

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Checking in, no booze consumed in any of the last 4 days.

Happy Saturdays!

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I’m sorry for your loss @anon53116147 , it shows how bad a addiction can be :sweat:
How sad for his children and people near him. Take care for yourself and your sobriaty Mike.

What a cutie @Alycia :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: What’s his name? Ore hers?

Hope you feel better soon @Kareness :pray:

Maybe it helps a bit when you check in just ones a day @Butterflymoonwoman ? Maybe that already helps instead of a total isolation/break?

Congratulations with your 10 month milestone @Teresa.13 :tada::tada::tada:

Sorry to hear your in pain @CATMANCAM , hope you will have a good night of rest tonight!

#Day 1607 :walking_woman:
Goldsmith class was fun. It’s 10 people mixed of all ages and experience. But I’m the only one with absolutely NO experience at all. But I will learn trough trial and error.
When I am in a new environment meeting new people I act very present/overdone? I do not know the right translation for it. I tried to be more low profile and I think I managed to do so.
Today? Work.


Have a good day ore night :raising_hand_woman:

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Got to this yesterday. Oh my, it has felt like a long and difficult month but I made it xx

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316 days AF
Still going strong. Friends seem to be distant atm which has been painful. Accepting relationships change isnt always easy.
How does one find new friendships?

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Day 133
Woke up coughing and with a dry, hurting throat :+1: Temperature is slightly higher as it’s normal for me so I called the hairdresser and quit my appointment for today :sob::broken_heart:
Going to cook me some good chicken soup to fight off whatever wants to bother me.
Lots of rest and vitamins for me this weekend, jackpot :face_with_spiral_eyes:
Have a beautiful sober day friends and stay strong :kissing_heart::muscle:

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Have as good a day as you all can friends. Sober and clean. Love from Utrecht.

@anon53116147 So sorry for your loss Mike. Just terrible.
@Kareness :crossed_fingers:For you.
@SadMemeQueen Always good to see you check in Megan. Glad you’re here now.
@DryIn785 Keep going Mark. ODAAT and all that.
@Butterflymoonwoman Maybe you do need to take it a bit easy Dana. No black or white though. You can slow the pace of your involvement a bit instead of totally stopping it. Your choice anyway. Hugs.
@Alycia Yay on the puppy! Congrats!
@chey.o 7 Months! Congrats! Good days and bad ones. Proud of you Cheyenne.
@Hayleylujah Congrats on 8 months
@Teresa.13 10 months Lady! Big congrats!

Working late shifts this weekend. That’s fine. Yesterday I did my first proper EMDR session in the morning, intense stuff that is. In the afternoon had my Pesso group therapy, which is beginning to take shape too. And biked to everywhere and back home. Nearly 6 hours of cycling and 3.5 hours of therapy. Long day. But feeling pretty good now. Could never do all this when I wasn’t sober and clean. It’s my journey of Discovery. X

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Thank you :blush: and such beautiful scenery :sparkling_heart:

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Two and a half years today

Still working on progress, not perfection. And that progress can be a little hard to see sometimes. Trying to give myself grace, that where I am is ok, that keeping heading in the right direction is all I need to do. But I want to be ‘all fixed’ and I want that now.

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I had a great week myself :nerd_face:

The highlight was lunch with an old friend who’s ‘in the business’ (as we say here in Nashville). As we were parting he mentioned something that he’s never told me in the 15+ years we’ve known each other. Completely out of the blue he said ‘…well it’s been 30 years, two months, and 18 days that I’ve been sober…’. We weren’t even talking about sobriety. Proudly, I was able to reply that it’s been over 30 days for me (39 today).

A completely casual and unexpected conversation then occurred in that restaurant parking lot. I felt no shame or stigma at all for the first time in my life.

You never know who is walking the same steps we are.

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@Hayleylujah congrats on your 8 months :gem:
@Misokatsu congrats on 2 and half years :purple_heart:

Hi everyone I have so much catching up to do here, if I manage to go that far back :relaxed: hugs to everyone and congratulations to all of those Iv missed :heavy_heart_exclamation:

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Congratulations on 39 days, so true we don’t know what others paths are and how similar to our own they can be.
Your doing amazing :slightly_smiling_face:

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So do I. The gif is me. Alas, we have to keep trudging through the glutinous mud called live. ODAAT and all that dear Flo. Big congrats on 2.5 years. That in itself is huge. Big hugs.

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You’re a bit off my friend. June 9 2019 is my sober day. Four years in a little under 4 months now. Is the plan. x

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Well that’s deserves a huge Congratulations :tada: I’ll delete my last post incase you get a flood of congratulations for either of the wrong dates :kissing_closed_eyes:

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Wow, 10 months! Well done!:+1:

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Wohoo! 7 months! Good work!:ok_hand:t2:

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It is me, too!

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Welcome to Talking Sober and congrats on (nearly) completing a week sober Jason! Your drinking sound slike mine was. Hope you can find what you’re looking for here. This place sure provided plenty of that for me. Wishing you all success in your sober journey.

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