Checking in daily to maintain focus #52

Hello all,

Checking in on day Sober 1,672 Sober.

Thanks

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Day 3 here, quite wobbly yesterday evening but got through it and am feeling much stronger this morning. I like that the app reminded me to journal. Day 3 or 4 is usually tricky for me. Iā€™ve been worrying about an upcoming road trip - my horses live on a gorgeous ranch in northern New Mexico & I drive from NE where I currently live to visit for a month or so (will be moving to Taos FT once my partner retires). I do this every couple of months & have yet to settle into the hotel without a couple of drinks to ā€˜relaxā€™ after a 12+ hour day of driving. I think all it really does is make me sleep poorly and be even more tired the next day. Iā€™ve been doing this routine for 3 years and either travel solo or with my partner and dogs. This time Iā€™m driving solo with my dogs as they have so much fun on the ranch & my partner canā€™t come. This adds additional stress but also major motivation to stay sober as I donā€™t want to be groggy driving (not that I ever want that) or make a stupid mistake with my dogs in my care. I found the comment above about welcoming the challenge very helpful, so thank you! Itā€™s a mindset shift which is easy to make. I have about a month to get it cemented in my mind :muscle:

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Thank you very much! :relaxed:

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Congratulations on day 3 Hoss.
We did a lot of driving from Durango to Santa Monica with our 4 cats and 2 dogs. I had about 2 weeks in being sober on my first drive on this wonderful sober journey. I always would reward myself with massive amounts of alchol after the drive. And be so hungover and sic the next couple of days. I was so proud of myself the first time I stayed sober. It was hard. I did a lot of angry power walks 2 or 3 times a day with Eminem. And I took many hot showers and cried it out. But waking up each morning with out a pounding headache felt amazing.
We got your back.
Iā€™m glad your here.
:pray:t2::heart:

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Congratulations on your 40 days Marcio
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Keep up the great work.
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Thank you for your understanding & encouragement, my attitude has shifted from worrying, to feeling excited about the challenge :+1:

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We are not alone. And we are much stronger in numbers.
:pray::heart:

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Checking in, sober and thankful for a full nights sleep :grin: its the small things that bring me such joy and I am feeling super blessed to have these moments in my life. Today will be they gym, food prep, laundry and all the mundane things that I look forward to as I can do them sober.

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Day 270. Saturdays and weekends are actually hard for me. They are boring and feel like to much time in the day. Might go for a jog, also need to clean the kitchen oven really good, on Saturdays we deep clean are chores. Easy enough Iā€™ll get it done, much love

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:high_brightness: Morning Check In :high_brightness:
Day 377
Currently on my way to work. Weather jumped from -38Ā°C to -15Ā°C. Its beautiful out! Thats definitly one reason why i love living where i doā€¦ the quick change in weather.
My brother did our taxes yesterday. It was supposed to be done earlier but CRA had to approve Studio Tax or something. Either way it finally got done last night. I know that im not getting anything back but my hubby is hopefully, which would be nice.
Other than that, not much going on.
Hope everyone has an addiction free saturday!
:butterfly:

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13 days in. Still struggling with emotions from a breakup, but itā€™s out of my control. Weekends are when i struggle the most. My son goes to his dads and Iā€™m usually alone. I know my patterns and i need to focus on other things rather than getting that fix.

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Im in the 300 club! Woot woot

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Boom :boom: :boom: :boom:
There it is!!!
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Congratulations on your 300 OFDAAT CJ :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
:pray:t2::heart:

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Congrats. You got this. I am right behind you with four months and 23 days. I will feel better when I am past five. But once you get one day over five, you will feel even stronger. Take care, and enjoy your weekend!

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Awesome job!

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Yes!!! Congratulations on 300 days! :partying_face:

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Huge Congratulations :clap::bouquet:

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Holy shit man so many sober people hear and so many starting there journey brings a tear to my eye seriously. Such a beautiful thing man. For me itā€™s Day 100 :exploding_head: Iā€™ve never been 100%abstinent from all substances since 14 years old and that lasted 9 months. Iā€™m 32 now and never did I think I would be willingly staying clean for myself. This place definitely has helped me a lot with people reaching out to me, and vice versa. Wasnā€™t long ago I couldnā€™t get passed 3 days for the life of me. Double digits shit forget about it, but here I am triple digits truly is a blessing. Shit has not been easy by any means good days, bad days. I really have to remind myself where I came from, alone thinking a solution was to die loaded. Today I want to be clean, I want to become a good man, a good father, son, friend. All this keeping track I need to remember this is a One Day At A Time process. I like the saying ā€œthe person who woke up earlier than me sober today has more time than meā€ so 1 day or decades doesnā€™t matter all I have is this moment. Hope everyone is well thank you sober fam couldnā€™t have done it without you :pray::blue_heart:

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Huge congrats on your big 100 :100: triple digits super proud of :star::sparkler:

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Thanks twizz :hugs: good to hear from you hope you are well.

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