Checking in daily to maintain focus #53

My friend, huge congratulations on 3 months of no self harm! I know theres been some trying times but uv overcome them each and every time. Im soo proud of you!! :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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Checking in on Day 412

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Sounds like a perfect Saturday!! @liminal.rehab

@KellyKelly congratulations on your 1 year! You and @Alycia are almost Aussie sober twins :raised_hands:

Checking in on another sober day! Saturday and first day of the school holidays, the kids and I had big plans but we all woke around 9am and felt lazy so postponed everything to tomorrow lol. We hung out at home instead playing soccer and watching movies. Finished the day with a yummy dinner they helped to prepare. It was a nice change to spend an unrushed low key day together, muchly needed! Oh and the school colour run was amazing fun yesterday, will definitely put my hand up to volunteer again next year :grinning:

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We watched the games last night too! Wow huge surprise with Iowa!!! I was never a big bball fan but have gotten into it this year! :basketball:

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Amazing, congrats!!! :tada:

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@KellyKelly Just amazing! Freedom from alcohol looks good on you. Frame-worthy photo.
Yoda Good Job

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Checking in day 40. Last night we had a tornado threat and I was a mess. Since we were impacted by a tornado in early 2020 (right before the pandemic :joy:) I have not been able to handle extreme weather well, compounded by some worsening anxiety since I got sober. BUT I did a panic meditation and it helped a lot. I couldnā€™t sleep I til 1:30am so today I am tired. I will have to learn to cope better because this will continue happening, especially this and next month.

I just want to say I love this thread so much and reading about all of your journeys!

This morning I found a Cosmo article that was interesting, a listicle of 55 celebrities who are sober. Good reading with coffee. Happy Saturday all!

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@Twizzlers @KarenKW

Iā€™m currently in PT and she is using dry needling on my pectoral and lateral muscles for my right shoulder. And I get a monthly massage. Iā€™m glad we have good therapy for this stuff. It works well.

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Dry needling I just looked it up and when Iā€™m in pain that is exactly what I imagine getting right to the point.
Itā€™s seems that all the muscles around the trigger point for me all need relaxing before can even get to the actual problem.
I have found exercise is really helping, also IV learnt from exercising my left shoulder where I get the pain behind the blade, is weak and Iā€™m trying to strengthen it up.
I also feel at the front of my chest near the collarbone may actually be where the cause is as it get releif like itā€™s referred pain also.
When I went to physical therapy the lady didnā€™t take me seriously. Maybe I should try again. But itā€™s not too bad atm

Hope your therapyā€™s help :hugs:

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That is so awesome that baked @KellyKelly a cake for her one year! :grin: I love this community

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Checking in daily to maintain focus #53 on my sober day 53.

It is so windy here! The wind sounds like a constant siren outside moving through the trees.

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Day 38! I woke up this morning slowly bracing myself for a pounding headache as I got out of bed. Then I opened my eyes and realized no headache because Iā€™m NOT HUNGOVER! Crazy what we all get used to when weā€™re drinking.

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Congratulations :tada::tada::tada::tada:

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Congratulations! So worth it.

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Checking in day 171 yā€™all! Thanks to everyone for being here and the virtual support! Be safe and happy sober Saturday all! :heart_hands:

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Checking in with 16 days. I have been in a whirlwind as my business has been picking up. Iā€™ve been working with my sponsor in SA and will be doing my step 1 presentation to the group at our meeting in 9 days. It feels good to have a definite date coming up for that.

Havenā€™t been as active here as I was over the winter but you are all on my mind. Take care and stay present friends. Itā€™s your life and the universe is the classroom. We are learning :innocent:

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Day 84. Woke up early with a fucking migraine. While pain eventually got somewhat better, my mood never recovered. Depressed and tired of everything. Itā€™s a beautiful day out but I canā€™t enjoy it. Losing patience with my bf. I just want to be alone. Life feels like a constant battle lately. Even when something good happens, itā€™s quickly fallowed by more crap.

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Day 182
I passed the 6 month mark :relieved:
Feels good to be back :muscle:
Thatā€™s all for today, Iā€™m a little headache-ish and my mood is not the best. I hope it clears up again. I donā€™t want to feel like I did last month.
Have a beautiful sober day friends, stay strong :kissing_heart::muscle:

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Amazing Stuff, awesome job - Huge congratulations :clap:

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Day :six:

Not so nice Check-inā€¦

So my Girlfriends Ex called about hour ago, very drunk, yelling something to her about how hes gonna beat me up and so on, because about few months ago I said to her 14 years old son to take care of his room, wash dog sh*t and p**s because he plays video games while his room is full of poopsā€¦ I yelled to him, I am not your father, but I will not wash your room full of poops, while I washed all around house, because heā€™s, to lazy to walk his dog. I said not to leave house after school and be good, but he runned away to play with friends. So we talked and took away his smartphone and pc for a day. He then started to act better and we gave all back. Now he mostly stays at his father.

So today he called all drunk yelling, telling how hes gonna beat me up because I took away his sons phone.

Feeling a bit lost and confusedā€¦ We locked doors from inside and talked to call police if he comes. Actually being stabbed almost to death by a drunk in past, I try to avoid conflicts and situations like this. Also I have almost disabled half of my right hand. Had few surgeries few years ago and since then I dont know if I am really capable to defend myself properly. I do not like a feeling that I can be attacked by any moment.

I think I will call him tomorrow and will try to give a polite talk.

:rotating_light:

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