Checking in daily to maintain focus #54

76 D AF Refuge Recovery meeting in person today,. Glad I went ~ my new home group! :blush: ~
Felt some love and inclusivity today , super greatful. Having strong cravings lately wanting a much better past but thatā€™s just the way it is right now. Thoughts of the past in this present moment. Thought are not real. This present moment holds reality ~ according to my guy , Sumato Love you sober family, peace to you ~ inner and outer :hugs::hugs::hugs::heart::heart::heart:

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Checking in another day sober going to stop posting my number of days as Iā€™m focusing on the number to much just taking it 24hours at a time 10,100 or 1000 itā€™s just for today hope everyone is well :pray:t2:

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Have as good a day as you all can friends. Sober and clean. Love.


Going to go out a bit and enjoy the :sun_with_face: before heading to work. Can do with a bit of warmth. X
@Wunderbar Huge congrats Chad and thanks for checking in. Inspirational motivational stuff.
@FeelingBetter Yay Jean! Keep going, youā€™re doing this!
@SoberWalker Happy holidays friend.

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Day 60!

Going dancing in the sun to celebrate. I put together a cute little 60s flower power themed outfit inspired by strawberry lemonade sherbet :yum: just gonna tell you now, it looks right.

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Thanks @siand ! Already relapsed on sugar. Its damn hard :confounded:

You got this, if i could quit cigs/vape, you will succeed too! :muscle::heart:

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Checking in to keep my goals fresh and in the forefront of my mind.
Dont drink
Donā€™t smoke
Laugh lots
Love openly
Enjoy the mundane

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Day 211 alcohol free

Ach the Social media. Yesterday I was thinking about that. I use YouTube regularly. I listen to music, watch news sometimes, consume a lot of Space related things, learn interesting things about the food industry (they want our money, not our wellbeing, please cook by yourself :grimacing:) or other topics. I canā€™t really avoid it. And I donā€™t want to avoid it. I donā€™t abuse it, I use it.
But I canā€™t use the sobriety counter on that one. Iā€™m not free from social media, Iā€™m free from all the Apps I abused: Twitter, TikTok and Instagram.
Had to get that out.

Iā€™m still laying in bed, shame on me (itā€™s 11:30h :joy:) and google for recipes. Iā€™ll make french toast. We call those ā€œArme Ritterā€, ā€œpoor knightsā€. I donā€™t know why.
My uncle who died of alcoholism used to make them, and his ones were the best I ever had. Besides his alcohol problem he was a good guy, tried to teach me fishing. We prepared eel together, I miss him.

Okay, time to get this body out of bed into the kitchen :wink:

Have a beautiful sober day friends, stay strong :muscle::kissing_heart:

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Congratulations on your day 60! Wonderful! Glad you are truly celebrating!
Fabric is from 2023 not the 60ā€™s but looks as if it could beā€¦ Flower Power!

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I can relate Jaz, my husband keeps wondering why Iā€™m randomly checking my phone :smile:

He knows Iā€™m off alcohol, but I havenā€™t mentioned the forum yet. I will though, because this wonderful community has turned out to be a huge support to me, a real life line. Iā€™m so early in my sobriety I need all the help I can get. I want to be here to provide whatever motivation I can too :heart:

I have mentioned it elsewhere on the forum, but Iā€™m on day 8 now. I think after day 10 Iā€™ll start checking my numbers in each week. I feel confident enough that Iā€™m free now. I know Iā€™ll be tried, but Iā€™m strong enough to say NO now.

You do what you have to Jaz, if that means checking in every five minutes, then so be it :grin:

Going to take a walk with my husband and kiddies. Have a lovely sober, healthy day everyone :heart::people_hugging:

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Thank you Binx
Appreciate you and your words. I have found much motivation from your words. Appreciare having you here on this journey with me.
Day 8 - now to be day 9 is awesome.

Thanks - i do enjoy being addiction free but find it easy to become complacent and somehow falling back into old habits. I am enjoying this community and am finding so much love and support here that i feel like ive gained a zillion like minded friends. I am determined that this will be my new way of life and im clutching onto this lifeline as you put it with dear life :rofl::rofl:

Tell your husband when you feel comfortable in sharing. Im sure hes just happy to have you being you and your vibrant self back again. From your posts, i can see you are full of life and love and alcohol does dull /kill that. It took me weeks beforevi shared this community with my family but now im glad they know ive got wonderful support.

You have a wonderful Sunday with hubby and kiddos :heart:.

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For sure! Sometimes even when you arenā€™t sad and sometimes just outta the blue. This has been an enlightening experience.

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12 hour shift, 2 hours sleep and now off to go swimming. Wouldnā€™t happen before, 12 hour shift = 12 hours drinking, pass out. Happy sober Sunday :grin:

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Hey all, checking in on day 1,050. I hope everybody has a good one!

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OMG! Only 1 cup of coffee in before cruising into this app this morning for my morning dose of awesome. Saw my counter and started to have a cardiac moment wondering where the heck my days sober disappeared to!!!?!?:rofl::rofl::rofl:duh

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Congratulations :clap::tada::clap:

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Day 992

Have been trying to be more organized with time recently, and have been keeping up with work and study and kids stuff pretty well. I am kinda withdrawing tho, not that I am super social anyway, and not sure if that is something to be concerned about, or it is just a natural phase. We will see. Happy to be sober, and now my quadruple digits milestone is coming up I have been checking my counter more often.

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Hahaha thats soo clever!!! Never thought of that :laughing:

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Congratulations jennifer!!! :confetti_ball: so proud of you! 1 month is amazing :clap:

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Congratulations on 2 whole months!!! :star_struck:

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@liminal.rehab great job on 60 days and @Googie amazing- 1st 30 are behind youā€¦keep up the awesome workā€¦we can and will beatvthis addiction odaat

@Misokatsu i too finds periods of when i withdraw from everything/everyone to self reflect. If you are working on yourself and do enjoy being with you i dont think its anything to worry about. You will open up again when you are ready.

Checkung in today - another sober day ahead. I wike up foggy but did my facial ice dunks and took an hour walk in the raun (a little more than a drizzle). Feeling exhausted but energized. Getting ready fir some meditation time with familyā€¦all in all a fantastic start to my Sunday

Hope you are all doing well and wishing everyone a beautiful sober dayā€¦:heart_hands::heart:

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