Checking in daily to maintain focus #64

Are you ok???
I would love to see you feel better asap

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Sometimes when im overwhelmed at work i just stop and breath for 10 seconds

I wonder if anything inperticular is on your mind

Keep posting :slight_smile:

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I feel you. Sometimes I feel so overwhelmed and tightly-wound that I canā€™t even be bothered to chew, let alone make food.
Supplements are good, but only tend to be absorbed properly if you have something lining your stomach.

Do you have any ā€˜pickyā€™ foods? - Fruit, veg, yoghurt, stuff that you can grab from the fridge without needing any prep.

Make sure you have plenty of fluids; milk and juices can be highly calorie dense, and nutritious (just be careful with the sugar!)

Do you have anyone who can cook for you? Or order from a takeaway?

If all else fails, I just go to bed. Sounds like BS, but we all need a duvet day sometimes.

Sending you strength. Please take care of yourself.

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Thank you!:star2::sparkles::sunny:

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Checking in on day 285 AF.
Today has been good. I had the first of my taster sessions of a woodwork class at my local community hub. I have been on the waiting list since November so thereā€™s been a bit of a wait. I made a domino box style pencil case and was using machinery as well as hand tools. I feel pretty tuckered out after the level of focus that was required. Next week I start making a wooden drinking vessel. Iā€™m looking forward to that.
We usually get takeaway food on a Friday evening so Iā€™ve had a nice butter chicken with rice and naan and now Iā€™m relaxing with a pot of rooibos tea.
I think Iā€™ll sleep well tonight.
Wishing everyone an addiction free day.

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Friday night Day 14 double check in. Itā€™s so weird, still. A bit lonely. Looking forward to more of these. This will get better.

Sipping earl grey tea and settling in for a show. Wishing yā€™all a great weekend. :bird:

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Checking in day 74 AF :blush:

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Checking in day 32

Looking forward to a pretty weekend. Pollen is pretty bad right now. My husband has been drinking all day but is resting now. It is a death wish for him because he has cirrhosis, it is hard to watch. I am just trying to stay focused on my goals. Hope everyone has a nice sober evening.

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Congratulations on ur 1 week!!

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Congratulations on 2 weeks :smiley:

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Thank you :grinning:

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Yes. I have a possible eviction after losing my job, after a major accident. Letā€™s just say, all this stuff is new to me, and hard to take.

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I am so sorry to hear that

Just take it slow and day by day

If you can work deffinetly find sonething soon
You can do this!!

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Days like this happen, they do for me anyway. Have you thought about the 30 day milestone coming up at all? Thereā€™s something that is called milestone malady by some folks where feelings get heavy just before reaching one. I think our brains go on a bit of overdrive and a lot of emotions come up. Be kind to yourself and get through today, I betcha tomorrow will be better, but just taking things a day at a time as usual youā€™ll get through it. Hang in there.

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Day 67 AF

Good Afternoon TS Family

Keep going back and forth with my counter if I should keep adding the 187 days Iā€™ve been doc free or just stick with the Alcohol counter as we know Alcohol is a drug. Since I will celebrate my one year God willing after being completely clean of all mood and mind altering substances I will stick to my alcohol free counter. ( Trying to not complicate myself too much)

Feeling ok today. Taking it slow. Giving time, time.

Blessings to you all! :pray:t5:

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Day 265. Gone to bed early. Been having urges for a bottle of beerā€¦ Telling myself one would be ok

Then it would be one more tomoro nightā€¦ Then a bottle of wine by next Wednesdayā€¦ Then back to a bottle of wine every night the following week. Bit shit really. So going to go to bed

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Sending so much love your way. I hope itā€™s just a bad day/few days and you see improvement. I wish I could come be your personal chef! Hang in there and definitely keep trying to take good care of yourself, amiga.

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You could always have two counters and post them both like other people do. It would matter to me to see them both, anyway (I have three counters, though Iā€™m not as focused on them).

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Checking in. Day 1 of not smoking. It went well so far, I had withdrawal symptoms but not so many, as I have been detoxing the last five days already (but still fell asleep two times during the afternoon). I worked quite a lot, had a great workout, and for the first time in like ten years I bought plants to the apartment to have a more spring-kind atmosphere. It took me by surprise that spring has come. I just notice that last year I didnā€™t realize the change of seasons at all, looking back it was like having the same cold and rainy day over and over again, and I somehow stopped believing that time moves on as I got stuck at a point of my past, so itā€™s strange but in a good way that change is really out there.

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I never underestimate the power of going to bed when the going gets rough! Some days just need to end. Sending you hugs and best wishes. Youā€™re walking through what really happens when you pick up. Not today, but when it escalates. Because of that first drink. Well done.

Sweet dreams!

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