I’m speaking to a. friend right now
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@soberwalker Oh wow – that is super interesting – hope you enjoyed the exhibit
@rosacando Oh man a tough therapy session (especially a brutally honest one) can be draining and the emotions will linger for some time. I am sorry that this is the weekend you are alone and sitting with this. Glad you reached out. Are you able to put on some good vibe music or a good comic to watch to help you get through this emotional time (laughter helps pull me out of the dark moments). Sending you hugs and comfort – here if you need to talk.
@19801 WOW 2 weeks is awesome – enjoy the gift of sleep – so wonderous 
@jules000 It will not be worth it! Nothing good comes easy love – please do not let your SH voice win – it wants to keep you in captivity. You have a safe place to stay with good support – reach out to someone irl or keep connected here but do NOT go to the store. Spread those wings and love yourself. Listen to Meghan @sadmemequeen IT IS NOT WORTH IT!
Checking in on Sunday evening
585 days free of alcohol and weed
1000 days free of smoking 
Been not so hot the past few days and spending a LOT of time in bed. Hoping the rest helps. Just dealing with fatigue, pains and allergies to boot … well now monthly BS too. Might as well pile it on right now so i can get it over with 
Glad to have left over pizza as I am craving something greasy.
Glad I got caught up - so much missed in a day.
Wishing you all a wonderful addiction free day / evening - sending you all so much love 
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OH that is great to read - thank you! Much love Meghan. You are worth it
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Congratulations Sean!
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I did. I put a CD in my old car and drove a bit and sang my heart out. I took a shower. I filled my dishwasher. I walked my dog. I watched all the olympics I could. It’s been a good weekend. I’m still struggling but I’m going to get through this. I need to invest more time here to expect more response but I’ve got friends there for me and thank you. Thank you.
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Checking in Day 407 AF
Took a brief break from the stress of packing. Met a new guy for lunch. He seemed normal until I got home. He sent me a text asking if he could ask me a question. Sure I told him. He asked if the necklace I wore had a specific meaning. I told him no, it was just something I saw and liked so I bought it. He then went on to explain that he’d been told someone that wears such a necklace wears it so others would know I was a submissive! WTF…… I mean to each is own but that’s not a world I walk in nor do I care to. It’s not something I understand. He wouldn’t let it go and continued to tell him how I shouldn’t wear it again because there are people out in the world that would think that was what I was trying to convey.
Jesus are there no normal people left in the world? I think k this is why I chose to stay in relationships that are mediocre because it’s better then what’s out there. I think it’s time to stop dating, and just realize I’m meant to be a party of one.
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Oh that’s great love… Glad to hear all that you did and are doing… grateful that it’s helping! 
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Wow…Seriously? I would have no idea and think it’s made up horseshit. Well good riddens to that guy.
You got a lot going on right now with the move and all …maybe altake a bit of a break from dating but please don’t give up on finding someone. Many good men out there. 
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Jasmine if there’s an oddball out there I’ll find them! I’m oddball magnet. Lol
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Checking in at he end of day 78.
@JazzyS thank you! I’m glad I didn’t go either. Red wine is my krypto too!
Funny though, I felt like I had to give a really good reason for not going to the winery. I think someone posted on here how we have to defend our choice not to drink. They can’t just accept no thank you, smh.
Have a good evening/day.
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Day 1016 AF
Wud up, gang.
Not whole lot going on. Staying busy with the fam and the kids. Went out for groceries. Took the lil man to the park. Gonna go for a walk in a bit. Excersise. Watch AHS. And then pass out. It’s back to the grind tomorrow.
Have a goodnight, y’all. Stay strong! 
ODAAT. Much love.
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Congrats on 1K off the smokes! You’re killing it!
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Checking in Sunday evening. It was hot today and I had some family time with the paddle board at the lake. Got a bit too much sun 
it seems.
I hope everyone has a good start to the week. Sending you strength and good vibes @RosaCanDo
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My weekend was busy but nice. Lots of cycling, and meeting some friends, old and new. It was good. Now into the new week. I’m sober and clean. I got a job I like. I’m healthy and on my journey of discovery one day at a time. Together with you all.
Good days and bad ones friends. Using never made anything better, only much much worse. We’re in this together. Have as good a day as you all can and make it clean and sober or nothing will come of it. Love.
@RosaCanDo You’re not alone
@Eke Great to see you, huge congrats on an amazing 6 years of sobriety my friend!!! 
@Laner I recognize that. There’s some good memories of people having me over as a kid. I should work a bit harder on inviting folks to my place. Success with the counselor.
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Congratulations on your 6 years 
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Congrats on the 1000 no smoking
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Day 1 alcohol free for me. I wasn’t prepared to feel so many emotions about finally surrendering 
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I’m here, I’m alive, I’m sober and I’m happy.
Day 152
Cowboy/western theme park all day today.
Weather is amazing and is supposed to stay that way for a few days.
Today is going to be a great day, I can feel it.
That’s all Folks 
Wishing y’all a wonderful day.
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Going into Day 6 feeling good
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