Checking in daily to maintain focus #72

Happy Birthday Seb
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Iā€™ve noticed sometimes Iā€™ll see someoneā€™s number and think ā€œIs that right?! :thinking: It feels like they were just on day 1!ā€ Surely it seems faster to me, being on the outside looking in, but Iā€™m glad it went by quickly for you too. I also think itā€™s good how you think of your last time. I still remember the last time I drank like it was yesterday. Not bc something bad or crazy happened, it was actually quite unremarkable, but bc itā€™s when I realized it just wasnā€™t worth it anymore. So thatā€™s why I remind myself. Well done on your 88 days :clap:

@Seb Happy Birthday Sebastian! :birthday::balloon::partying_face: Enjoy your night!

@Troj04 Welcome :pray: Great job on 33 days!

Me with everything :sweat_smile: But loving your perspective! Youā€™ll get it done :hugs: It is funny that today was ā€˜warmā€™ at 42Ā°(I didnā€™t even need a coat), but when itā€™s 60Ā° towards the end of summer, itā€™s ā€˜freezingā€™! :joy:

Lol! Nice number :rofl: On day 350, I just wrote ā€˜tree fiddyā€™ :laughing: and I donā€™t think anyone noticed! I was hoping somebody would get it :sweat_smile: Have a fun night out!

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Thanks Jasmine! I am watching the news with a cat on my lap and looking at clothes sales on my laptop. So definitely some me time.

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374 days
Halfway through a 24hr shift at work. Been busy so far during the day. Got in a couple of different trainings in. One with an external partner and one just amongst ourselves.
Just got a stretch session in, back is feeling a lot better and had a couple of strenuous moments today.
Will give the kids a video call soon, amazing we live in a time with such technology readily available.

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Lol. I typed Tree Fiddy in the search bar and found your post :laughing: :rofl:. Thatā€™s funny.

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@Seb
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  1. Just checking in.
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So like I said, I donā€™t always accomplish what I set out to do for the day. After back tracking to see where I went off course, it actually sounds insane :exploding_head: My goal for the day was to set up the tree and decorate. In order to do that, I needed to clear a space. So I sprinkled carpet powder to prepare for vacuuming. While that sat, I figured I should do the dishes. But first, I noticed the dish drainer looking crusty. I took that apart, scrubbed it and the counter underneath, then moved onto the stove(which needed it more that I thought) Some stains on the cabinets caught my eye and I filled a bucket with soapy water, intending to follow up with a coat of scratch filler. Except while I was cleaning them, I found a few loose knobs I thought should be tightened. This led me to tighten everything in the house with screws in it! Ending in my bedroom, I sorted a random pile of clothes, trying on a pair of pants my friend gave me. They were short(typical issue for me :face_with_diagonal_mouth:), but would gain 2" if I unhemmed them, so I obviously did that. By this time, I had to start dinner. I realized I hadnā€™t vacuumed, so I did while it was cooking. I remembered my daughterā€™s advent calendar that I ordered before Thanksgiving arrived today(2 day shipping my ass :face_with_raised_eyebrow:), so we opened 9 days of surprises! Then she wanted to watch Bean, the Movieā€¦and that was the rest of my night :woman_shrugging:

Never polished the cabinets. Never did the dishes. Never got out ANY Christmas decorations!!! :tired_face: Please tell me Iā€™m not the only one whoā€™s brain sabotages them like this :pray: Now I have to swallow the frog tomorrow.

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Day 25

After noon check-in, Not sleep well yesterday and am planning to sleep sometime, waiting for milk to melt to make a Custard apple shake.
These days Iā€™m smoking more than usual, when I was drinking Iā€™m not smoking cigerates. but when Iā€™m not drink, I used to smoke. I want to quit this habit also, Otherwise I will get addicted to this also. Im realized that I get addicted to everything very fast.
Hope you all doing well and Sober :tada:

@SoberWalker , @JazzyS How are you doing ? :slight_smile:

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Happy Birthday :partying_face::birthday::birthday: hope you enjoyed your meal!

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Happy birthday Seb :partying_face::birthday::partying_face:

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You know I need about tree fiddy

One of the best episodes.

On your day of half finished jobs, I can relate! I get in a kind of frenzy when I start with things to do and an empty space to do them. Ends up with the job I meant to do being unfinished too.

I started a little mental hack to deal with it which is to write down the OTHER things I notice on a piece of paper to do them later once the main job is done. Then, when I run out of time at the end of the day I just throw that piece of paper away. If something routinely turns up on those scraps of paper it lodges in my mind and I do it in the end, but most of those little things just do not require doing. Itā€™s an adaptation of a life hack from Atomic Habits which is a great book about this stuff.

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Oh my god! This is me! Hahahaā€¦
So relatable!

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@Seb Happy birthday! :partying_face:
@JazzyS believe me I am counting days. :smile:
@Juli1 your goals for next year sound wonderful. :heart:

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That looks much more comfortableā€¦ lol.

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Thanks for the birthday wishes @tailee17 @Butterflymoonwoman @JazzyS @JP123 @Just_Laura @GOKU2019 @Dazercat @Raspberry @TeaCosy @Tragicfarinelli
Had a superb day and beautiful night out. Feels great to sit in a pub unfazed by being surrounded by people drinking
Hope I didnā€™t miss anyone.
Thanks again :slightly_smiling_face:

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Hi Sarath, Iā€™m doing fine thank you for asking!
I recognize your story about replacing your addiction for something else. I did so too. And still concider myself as a person who has a senstivity for addiction. I think itā€™s still the brain who wants a quick dopamine fix.
Well done for the 25 days! :confetti_ball::confetti_ball::confetti_ball:

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ā˜† Day 2275 :walking_woman:
Overslept myself :hugs: Had set a alarmclock at my watch but didnā€™t push the activate button.
So had to hurry to my appointment at the compagny doctore, but made it on time! :sweat_smile::facepunch:
Did my grocery shopping afterwards and can relax now.

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Picture made during my holiday in France last september. Couldnā€™t do much because I injured my foot already. This day the weather was fine so I could swim. I was the only one in the pool and the water was only 18 degrees celcius (64,4 fahrenheit) :cold_face: But it was fun and I enjoyed the fact that this I could do without pain. I made a picture of my feet when I sat in the sun enjoying the warmth on my skin. When I saw the picture afterwards it made me think of an angel because the shadows in the pool reminds me of wings.
Tomorrow I can see those 2 feet in real life again :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye::confetti_ball:
Have a good day ore night all :raising_hand_woman:

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Happy birthday Sebastiaan! :confetti_ball::confetti_ball::confetti_ball:
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Cool pic!! Happy for you that youā€™re almost done counting down!

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