Daily Gratitude, The Air Of Recovery #5

Congratulations on 2 years!

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Congratulations on 25 and 11 months!

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Huge congrats to @Pandita and @JazzyS ! I’m grateful for the inspiration and insight you provide.
Today I’m grateful for:
TS
A particular friend of mine who I’ve studied Buddhism with for a long time now. We live in rural area where there aren’t any groups to join, so we are a ā€œsanghaā€ of two. She lives in a local village, I live further out in the countryside. She has also helped me with Al anon. Again, no local groups, so she has become my sponsor. I’m so grateful for her support!

I’m grateful I got out of the house yesterday evening and went with her to the local village art crawl. Visited studios and had treats, it was fun.

I’m grateful that before the event, I had an Al anon type visit with said friend and her husband who is an alcoholic in recovery as well. I am so grateful they understand what I’m going through with my husband’s addictions and are there for support when I need it.

I’m grateful for all of the folks here at TS. :smiling_face_with_tear:

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I’m grateful for my 3 Y 11 M AFAF Sober and Clean! Fucking A!!
I’m grateful for my family. My pets. My wife. Not necessarily in that order :blush: My coffee.
I’m grateful we got wifey’s car back yesterday. Looks good. Maybe she’ll start driving it again.
I’m grateful for a good nights sleep.
I’m grateful for warm hoodies. And my yellow beanies.
I’m grateful for my chiropractor.
I’m grateful we got the cookies dropped off at the vet. I’m grateful we got our shit ton of errands done yesterday.
I’m grateful maybe it will be a clean up around here day.
I’m grateful for my health.
I’m grateful I get to exercise.
I’m grateful I don’t get to do laundry.
I’m grateful I have cooking skills and I get to cook for us. I’m grateful I don’t get to clean cat littler.
I’m grateful I get to wake up early with all my furry pals and I get to take care of them, even before coffee. I’m grateful they are worth it. I’m grateful the joy all my pets and even other people’s pets or even pictures of pets and animals give me. I’m grateful for pet and animal videos on Twitter.
I’m grateful for my view.
I’m grateful I haven’t found a house in Cali yet. I’m grateful there’s no rush. I’m grateful to have patience with this as I like where I am right now.
I’m grateful for all the gratitude shared here by all of you.
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ā€œReflect upon your present blessings—of which every man has many—not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some.ā€
Charles Dickens

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Good morning soberinies,

Im so very greatful for…

My sobriety
Hubbys sobriety
People with longterm sobriety, gives me hope
Celebrating every day we have sober
This place
Got my ass to the gym and kicked ass for 90min
Im greatful @JazzyS is leading the way and showing me its possible to live without nicotine
Treating myself to pumpkin spice overnight oats…mmmmmm
Boscoe, poor guy might be getting sick bc hes not acting like himself
My folks…love em dearly
My brother in law is planning a surprise 40th for my sister
My brother in laws sobriety
My family
Everyones safety
Opportunities afforded us
Freedoms
Hope
Love
Growth
Self reflection
Saturdays
This awesome community and all ya gratitudes!

Peace and love as you experience this new day

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@Sunflower1 @Pattycake @Cjp :people_hugging::people_hugging::people_hugging:
Thank you so much. Love you all and this community…we sure as hell can keep stacking up the addiction free days! :muscle::muscle:

@Cjp hugs to Boscoe…hope he starts to feel better soon :pray::heart:

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Fuckin Eh is right :+1:
were-going-to-keep-this-going-chris-rock

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Good morning my friends! I’m grateful for extra Saturday morning snoozes and snuggles. I’m grateful for lazy days and date plans. I’m grateful for these silly beasts and how much joy and love they bring me. Buster is so funny, like he still hasn’t figured out his caboose is connected to the engine. He’s like two people in a horse costume, with one in the back and one in the front :rofl: I’m grateful he’ll probably figure it out someday and I’m also grateful it’s not today. :heart:

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Congratulations on your time as well!

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@Pandita @JazzyS @Dazercat and all others celebrating milestones: Congratulations :sunflower::birthday::four_leaf_clover:

Today I’m grateful I woke up well rested. I don’t know where the day disappeared but now it’s bedtime :scream: I really don’t know what happened. I’m grateful I heated the furnace and the kitchen stove, the cats were so funny today, I proceeded with tidying up and I’m grateful and proud the kitchen is cleaned and cleared, it can stay like this as I’m leaving mid next week to bring the cats to my cityhome and catsitter. The logistics for organizing everything living at the countryside are challenging.
I’m grateful I aired the house twice today. I’m grateful the snowfall was sooooo beautiful. I’m grateful I didn’t give a fuck about things I have to do downtown and stayed home. I’m grateful my late mum’s house runs on automatic heating for 1,5 hours / day and I really do hope it is enough to keep the water pipes from freezing. forecast tomorrow is -14 degrees celsius. so I have to drive over and check the heating and temperature in the morning. iiieeeks.
I’m grateful I made a beautiful Advent arrangement today. I rarely have an Advent wreath and this year I decided to make a nice arrangement with a beewax candle. Posted it on the holiday decorations thread.
I’m grateful I’m mostly done with laundry. Tomorrow the bathroom rugs are the last machine before christmas. I’m grateful I got ALL the blankets, linen, rugs, pillows and covers washed before christmasšŸ™ Yes, I give myself a pat on the back.
I’m grateful I did a bit of officework today too. Well, I’m grateful now I see where the day has gone …
Grateful to go to bed sober. ODAAT :pray:

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I relapsed, starting over. Gratitude for waking up. One day at a time.

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I’m grateful to God and I pray for his healing light to help save and guide me to do the right thing, if that is his will, and to keep my darkness at bay.

I’m grateful for music that I dance to, laught at, scream from, cry to, attempt to write, sing along with, meditate too and sometimes turn off.

I’m grateful for recovery meetings, treatment centers, churches, educational facilities, apps like TS all that try to help people.

I’m very grateful to be a part of this gratitude home thread, sometimes post and read a whole lot, sometimes a little. It’s value to me and yours (ya yours) over the past four years is immeasurable.

I’m grateful for my clean safe place and that I get to share it with my kitten Peace now, or maybe he share’s it with me :thinking:

I’m grateful for acceptance, awareness and accountability.

May our higher powers grant us freedom from addiction, just for today.

p.s. You are completely amazing. Ya you!!

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Thank you for sharing this and congratulations that is a HUGE milestone!! I also was able to get sober with some firm guidance from a therapist, who basically said that it didn’t matter what else we tried, nothing was working because I was still drinking. So why not try not doing that? And because I trusted her completely I was able to. She probably saved my life and I was able to bring my daily anxiety from a 9 to a 1-2 most days with tools that I still use to this day. I miss her! So my gratitude today is for her :slight_smile:

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I am grateful that my ex’s disease is turning out to be more manageable for him and proving my worst fears wrong. I am still working on my own anxiety and ableism and trying to overcome my fear of caretaking because everyone needs it eventually, and it’s not a good reason to keep people at arms length.

I am grateful that I have a doctor appointment on Wednesday because my jaw hurts so much and I am maxed out on Tylenol and I can’t keep going much longer like this. I feel like it’s karma for my above issues. I am grateful to be gaining understanding of what a chronic and debilitating consition is like.

I am grateful for my family friend who helped raise me and just passed away. I am grateful that I visited her last year at her new home and that she showed me photos and told me stories all about her family and her life. I am grateful to have been raised by a community of strong, smart women, even if they are a bit much.

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Do tell more about these pumpkin spice overnight oats! I have all the ingredients for OO and a PS version sounds heavenly.

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Good morning friends,
I’m grateful for reminders that life doesn’t have to be perfectly organized and put together to be beautiful. I’m grateful that we all went to see the new Godzilla movie last night because my son is such a fan. It was fun to go out in the evening, and he LOVED the movie! I’m grateful that my daughter didn’t say anything negative about it haha! I’m grateful that today I will get to visit my younger brother and his fiancĆ©, and celebrate them at a family get together. I’m grateful that I know it will be awkward and very out of my comfort zone (don’t know her family well, and their vibe is waaaay different than mine), but I will enjoy it the best I can and try to find humor in the awkwardness. I’m grateful my brother found love :heart:. I’m grateful for the simple things I have, a safe and loving home, enough food, a milk frother to make my morning coffee a little fancy. I’m grateful for the homethread and all of you​:heart:

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I’m grateful that today is a rest day, as far as exercise goes, as I woke to my 6am alarm, turned it off, and promptly fell back to sleep for another hour. :sweat_smile: This means that my furry geriatric goddess was more grateful for my appearance, seeing as how her food was an hour late (or maybe she was less grateful and more angry at my insignificant customer service :sweat_smile: :thinking: ).

Also grateful for chocolate scented candles. Thank you, Halloween, for prompting my local market to purchase these for sale during your season. I’m also grateful some went on clearance after the holiday so I could afford to buy more than the one indulgence.


@JazzyS 11 months! You are a true champion!
@Dazercat 3Y / 11M!! You are also a true champion! It’s amazing to think so much time has gone by. I remember many of your early milestones and I’m genuinely happy for you! So close to 4Y! FUCK YEAAAAH! LET’S GOOOOO BAAAYBEEE~~!
@erntedank Being well rested is a great blessing!
@Ana20 I’m grateful you have not let your relapse overtake your will to continue on. You can do this.
@Passerina_cyanea I hope you will be able to find out what is ailing your jaw in such a way that it can be attended to quickly in order to have relief from your pain. I can greatly sympathize with this because of jaw related issues I’ve dealt with.

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I’m grateful for family, specifically my sisters. We’re not close in distance at all but we’re close in our hearts. I’m grateful for technology that keeps our closeness. I’m grateful I answered my phone when the one sister called very early yesterday morning to tell me her daughter passed away (looks like it was heart related, autopsy today). She was only 47 and leaves behind a 12 year old son. I’m grateful she went on a girls family cruise trip a few weeks ago and enjoyed her remaining days. Grateful she decorated her house like the Griswold’s (Christmas is her favorite holiday) before her passing. She lit up so many lives and will be sorely missed. I’m grateful my sobriety has given me my feelings back and I’m grateful for ugly crying.

I’m grateful I’m feeling better health wise. I woke up Friday morning to the room spinning. I had to hold the walls to get to the bathroom. I thought it would pass and had hubby drive me to work. Unfortunately, it got worse and I couldn’t keep my head up. Thought it was low blood pressure but nothing I did would relieve it. Grateful hubby came back to get me, took me home and tucked me into bed, instead of the ER. Probably an inner ear thing because I feel fine now. Grateful for hubby’s concern even though it can be overwhelming. He’s afraid of losing me, especially now after my niece’s untimely death. I’m grateful for his love.
Maybe a reminder from my HP of how I felt in active addiction. Feeling dizzy and nauseous every single day/ night was the norm. Grateful I no longer live that way of life.

I’m grateful I enjoyed a night out Thursday at a play with my AA lady friends and my daughter. It was an awesome performance of the little mermaid at a local college. Grateful my daughter brought the ladies some joy in addition to the performance.

I’m grateful 4th quarter is coming to an end at work. It’s been extremely stressful. Grateful my boss was sincerely concerned Friday for my well-being because I’m never sick (her words).

Grateful for each and everyone of you helping to keep me sober daily.

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Good morning soberinoes,

Im so very greatful for…

My drive and determination
Closer to my weightloss goal…8.4weeks countdown
Got some time with hubby b4 i drove him to the airport
Got to the airport on time!
Engineers who time streetlights to keep traffic moving
Showed up at the gym even when i didnt wanna
A productive sunday, gone are the wasted hungover sundays!
I get to make my favorite lunch
Boscoes here to protect me while hubbys away lol
My folks can help watch Boscoe while im at work
A better mood

Peace and love

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Today I’m grateful I did all the morning chores and headed off downtown to check heating at all my places. It’s still strange and overwhelming that my late mum’s house is empty and I’m the only one left to take care. I’m grateful everything is ok, all houses are tempered as we are expecting below zero all day and double digits at night for the next week.
I’m grateful for my reliable car.
I’m grateful I texted a friend where I was and when I was home safe again. It’s such a gift to have caring people who will act when you don’t check in. I cried because this was something my ex was always reliable. He called me and worried when I was unexpectedly not showing up or calling. I’m grateful I rarely forgot to call, I miss this part of his heartfelt caring on days like today.
I’m grateful I stocked up on firewood. I’m grateful for a warm and cozy house.
I’m grateful for the Advent arrangement and the christmas decoration I already put up Holiday decorations 2023 - #77 by erntedank It is so beautiful to sit in silence when it gets from bright sunshine into darkness and watch it. I’m grateful the house is mostly neat and tidy. It brings peace to my soul.
I’m grateful for my hillarious cats. They are adorable fluffballs with temper and attitude. I love them to pieces.
I’m grateful I visited my friend at the hospital. We took a nice walk and visited the hospital church. It was wunderful to hear her sing in the empty church. I felt deeply touched. I’m grateful I don’t break down anymore when something touches me deeply. I’m grateful I can let go. Most times.
I’m grateful it’s Advent and I wish everyone including myself a peaceful time. Even my ex. ODAAT

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