Daily Highs & Lows

High: got to see my best friend today. I havent seen her since end of May (due to pandemic). It was so so needed!

Low: I didnt get all of my errands done, but that’s okay! Also, really bad headache /:

Overall, my mood today is 10/10!!

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My high for the day was doing 2 meetings! And cleaning out my work truck ready for work Monday! My low today was having some stomach issues

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Daily high: had the first book club meeting of 2021! It was so wonderful to meet again to pick our books…it felt so normal.

Daily low: I lost the sign in book for the meetings! 3 years worth of info gone! I’m so sad!

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Sunday high: My university baseball team went from a 9-1 potential loss to win 13-11

Sunday low: SO felt lousy all day. He is overall concerned about his health. Me, too!

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Monday High: Finally hit the triple digit club today. Can’t believe I made it. :blush::blush::blush:

Monday Low: My biggest pet peeve is a bad team player. I’ve got a few on my team at work, and they put undue stress on me today. :face_with_symbols_over_mouth:

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That’s a pretty heavy low, Laura. :cry: I hope some day some good will be revealed from it all. Certainly it has had some purpose, even if it’s not obvious now.

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Sorry that you’re going through this. Just remember… they’re ex’s for a reason. You have a bright future I’m sure.

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I’m sorry you feel the years were a loss, except for the children…my counselor said “If we could only live our lives backwards”. Heavy sigh. Having been married and divorced twice, I dont think there would have ever been an ideal time to have left. I hope you feel good about the decisions you make as you forge ahead. Forge ahead sober, that is. ((hug))

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Today’s high: I did food prep yesterday so dinner was made already when I got home.

Today’s low: I’m stretching to think of one. It was a good day!

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My second marriage, which I refer to as my “trainwreck marriage” was to an alcoholic/addict. Boy, he hid it well. I relapsed after MANY sober years and ultimately left to save myself and get sober. My #1 rule in relationships now? Non drinkers preferred. True social drinkers OK. No alcohol in the house. I just can’t.

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High: I have set my monthly goal! I am only gonna eat out 3 times this month (birthday’s) that way I can save money. Usually eat out 1 or twice a week. :sweat_smile:

Low: Mmm, pretty sure the next step in my relationship is either breaking things off & having a clean part or figure our problems out. We’ve been in this funk for about a month or so now. We have good days, but more bad… just nitpicking fights… petty arguments.

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High: Today i had a session with my therapist, and realized about my internal mechanisms, and how so much valuable I am.

Low: Feeling rlly tired and didn´t get to make myself something to eat for lunch.

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We’ll friends, it’s been a pretty great day 101.

LOW: Stupid, lazy people on my team who are terrible team players. One called me today and literally asked me if I would do something that is clearly his responsibility and has NOTHING to do with my job. NOPE. :roll_eyes:

HIGH: Took a walk down by the river this evening. Very beautiful and peaceful.

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High:great day at work.
Low: feeling extremely sluggish and lethargic.

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I’m sorry. Hope he’s doing well.

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I can understand that :frowning: it can be tough when there isn’t much you can do in some situations.

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High: had a therapy visit (I go to one to vent and manage my thoughts as I have had a hell of a year last year), it went well. I always enjoy them.

Low: Found out I am on ANOTHER project at work. Not that it is a bad thing, I love new experiences and learning opportunities, but I am working on getting stretched kind of thin.

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We keep repeating the cycle until the lesson is learned. After multiple relationships with men not treating me well, i now can see my part in it. Hurts but acknowledging that my trauma led me to them is healing. And f** hurting as i lost so much time. Still single as there seems to be a huge gap between not attrackting the wrong one and a good one :roll_eyes::crazy_face:

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Your nope in terms of setting boundaries could also be counted as a high in my eyes.

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Without a doubt. This particular coworker is just frustrating to deal with. It’s stressful every time. The good part is I’m basically the only person on our team who doesn’t give in to his shit. Don’t get me wrong, I will 100% help pull on the rope as a team member should, but I won’t enable laziness and selfishness.

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