Dealing with loved non sober friends

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This Friends and Family disease of addiction sucks!
Al-Anon has been helping me a lot. I thought I had all the tools from previous experience. But getting my butt to meetings has helped me a lot.

There are some threads here if your interested in doing more reading. One of them is.

Are you affected by a loved one who’s an addict?

Have you been affected by someone else’s drinking or them doing drugs? I have. We may be parents, children, spouses, partners, brothers, sisters, other family members, or friends, of alcoholics or drug addicts. No matter what our specific experience has been we share a common bond: we feel our lives have been affected by someone else’s drinking. I have been wanting to start an Al-Anonish type topic here ever since I joined Sober Time and TS. This is not Al-Anon. I do highly recommend Al-Anon …

I’m sorry this is happening in your life.
Congratulations on your sobriety.