I hear you. I was not pointing you to community guidelines but to a thread that has sex addicts talking about their addictions and triggers. Since you said youâre interested, I wanted to provide informative content that you can read.
Sex addiction is a behavioural addiction. When that includes porn addiction, weâre talking about images as fuelling factor. I do not blame others for my addiction even when they post naked pics here. I blame them for inflicting pain on me in place that should be SAFE also for me to recover. Posting a naked pic here is to me something similar as if someone would literally force alcohol down an alcoholicâs throat.
Great response, cheers.
I do not know him. Looking at his attitude, opinions and actions around this topic tells me he is not a safe person for me to be around. I have explained things to him before, this is not the first rodeo. If youâre new and you donât know and post naked, I hope you learn. If youâre a regular, know the rules, can name a few pmoâers and STILL post⌠Well⌠I do not take it lightly.
Sorry but a male missing a couple of straps compared to females showing cleavage is incomparable. I get topless is topless though and agree with the rulesâŚstill I donât bother too much with sober selfies cos itâs mostly female cleavage shots that have edited their pictures to make their faces look like innocent fairies, and I just like to see the real people I read a lot about doing good,âŚto be honest it should be covering shoulders for Every Body⌠when Iâve been in Spain with my dad ,to go in the shopping centres itâs ârespectfulâ to wear clothes (as an adult) that covers shoulders. So itâs been a good thing that this has all come upâŚI vote for covering shoulders 
Shoulders covered then. End of.
Totes agree with double standardsâŚif a shirt is required then that goes for EVERY BODY.
Might go an flag some cleavage for fun 
âŚsorry just getting âshirtyâ!!! Lol.
Kid pictures are another reason for great replies but I wonât post those anymore due to one member
Cleavage and topless are not exactly same. Ladies tend to have a top on altho it can be skimpy. Topless has nothing on. Similar topics but not the same. When I joined, men were allowed to post topless but women werenât. Such pics would have been flagged as sexually explicit and rightly so. Then the ban was extended to include everyone. I think THAT is fair.
Moreover, why do you go pointing fingers at others (women and their cleavage) when the discussion here is about one individualâs topless pic? Sounds like blame shifting.
Jeeeeez.this go in circles for ever!!. Itâs all too obvious. Shirts on for Every BODYâŚthat means all 58 gender types of BODY.
No darling no blaming involvedâŚjust my opinion.everybody is entitled to an opinion,just a perspectiveâŚyou have a point thoughâŚthe only difference is nipples 
What about girls tops of the boob tube variety?..if you canât see the top then that looks topless⌠honestly could go round and round and round.
Jesus Fucking Christ.
Team Anti-cleavage. Just stop. If you have problem with a picture then flag it. Right now you are playing a big game of whataboutism and it makes you dumb. He didnât have a shirt on. The picture was rightfully flagged. You can either move on or join Geo in storming off like a baby.
Team Mike is trying to ruin my sobriety. Just stop. The dude has like 6 days sober after a nasty relapse. He made a mistake. Cut him some slack. Heâs not out to intentionally attack your sobriety. Thatâs just your ego talking. And to the people who called him evil. Thatâs real fucking classy. Itâs also hypocritical. If you were so concerned about having people respect your sobriety you should probably start respecting others.
Now yâall can get back to beating the dead horse.
Amen. 
Hi 
Iâm Conor I come to this forum to help my sobriety and to support others if I can thatâs what everyone SHOULD be here for
I just checked a few of my selfie likes, plenty of likes from womanâŚam I missing something in regards to this argument ? I like nearly every selfie as I like seeing the confident happy faces of people doing well.
P.S. An argument thread has its merits 
SHIRTS ON for EVERY BODY. âŚ
Take some time off all. Not helpful to anyoneâs recovery. Take some deep breaths all and cool off.