Hey, just saw you post on another thread and been wondering. How are you doing?
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Bless you @Pandita im feeling alot better mentally…i do think it was alot to do with hormones…still have a bit of an uneasy feeling like something in my life is missing…apart from work and looking after my daughter and doing things with her i have zero social life because i dont want to be around drinking…thats what most of my friends do you see…i dont know…i dont know if im comparing myself to people again asthough i ‘should’ be doing all this socialising when really im quite happy being a hermit lol
Hope you are well, thank you for asking after me 
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Oh, that’s good to hear. I am glad you feel better. 
I think I know what you are talking about. I like being on my own too and I don’t ever get bored by my own company. But at the same time I feel like this isn’t the way I should be living. I do miss a person to lean on in my life. But while I am sad about it once in a while, it still feels less a struggle to be on my own. Haven’t really found a solution for it yet, so I am trying to accept this may be the way it is for now. 
I’ll take up opportunities to meet new people when they present themselves and I feel like it. Sorry, just rambling. Anyway, just wanted to let you know you are a wonderful, kind and interesting person - hermit or not. 
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Thank you so much thats really kind, you are very kind, interesting and wonderful also 
Yeah…i think maybe at times we put unnecessary pressure on ourselves to be doing all this exciting stuff when really we should just allow ourselves to just be and for that to be ok. At times i miss having partner too but on the flip side of that my life is peaceful and after some of the bad relationships ive had in the past theres alot to be said for that.
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