thank you soo much bro and your right you made me have a great day because yes i like to watch serial killers movies and it doesnt and also i dont like boys i just watch gay porn which means that iam not gay or bi i just fell into watching gay porn cuze iam still young and i like to exploree
There is a huge difference between denying and hiding a feeling like this or living a straight life accepting their existence.
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Itās good to explore, but itās better to do it open-minded, ready to get to know any feeling you encounter on the way, than to explore with preconceptions.
Why define yourself. So what if you like gay porn. That sir doesnāt make you gay. Be with woman if thats what you like. Donāt let others define you.
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exactly at 20 21 iam jus gonna marry a women i like and live a normal life also i also dont like gay porn but bcz i used to watch too much porn maybe i got bored of normal ones so i started cumming on gay porn and now i atopped gay porn and normal porn and maasturbation iam trying my best
how can i know whats my real sexuality from myself like what should i do to know
Porn is a part of a boys adolescence unfortunately these days. And you are a boy. You shouldnāt be on a forum like this. You need to talk to someone close to you that you trust.
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There isnāt any given thing you can do to figure it out. Just be honest to yourself. Forget your preconceptions about life and about normal/not normal things, forget every exceptation towards yourself. Donāt imagine a life and sculpture yourself to fit into it, but be honest about your feelings and desires, so you can sculpture your life later accordingly.
And also: give yourself time. Thereās no rush.
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i font trust anybody but i talked to an anonymous very smart girl she started by telling me u should how up and these silly things they dint understand iam not fuckung gay i just like gay porn and like having sex with anythinf and this feeling can be controlled cuz i love girls and like them
Ok. I repeat. Good luck.
thank you bro if you have any advice to help me destroy this small feeling please tell me
Self-awareness comes handy for straigth guys as well, donāt underestimate it.
You donāt get rid of it. You missed what I was saying. At 16 we explore things. I was never attracted to men. I am still not attracted to men. When youāre horny at that age anything can turn you on. Brains are still developing at 16. Look up what porn does the a brain.
Figure out how to stop porn period. An addiction to it will ruin your marriage.
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Exactly this
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so my steps were: installing porn blockers/ stopping all types of porn/ stping masturbation/ changing my life style(going to work/ sleeping earlyā¦) thedr will help wont they? the wuestion is am i late or i can solve it
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Solve what? Addiction? Yes. Being gay(which you donāt know if you are). I truly feel you dont have a choice. I havent woken up next to my wife and say I think Iām going to be gay.
If you donāt know and youāre not attracted to men outside of pornā¦ chances are you arenāt gay. I would worry more about the addiction. Thatās what weāre all here for. Sure Iām bet people have talked about ways to figure out what to say to people. But we cant tell you that you are or arenāt going go be gay. We could help you with the stress of dealing with it.
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I am not clear about what it is it that you are looking for in this thread.
If it is finding answers about your sexuality, I donāt think this forum is an appropriate place. I would recommend you contact this helplineā¦
There are other forums online, a quick google search has thrown up these which I think might be helpful but Iām sure you could find others if they donāt seem to fit.
https://teenlineonline.org/talk-now/ (US based but they have text support, a phoneline and an app)
https://www.supportgroups.com/online (they have a teen section as well as lots of issue specific support)
https://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/
It seems that you have had lots of advice but you keep on asking broadly the same question - Iām not sure what purpose this is serving.
I am closing this thread due to the fact that you live in a country which has such a different legal regime to the one that most of the people answering you live in, plus the fact that you are 16, thereās a lot about this conversation that feels inappropriate.
If anyone has any comments, concerns, suggestions etc, as always please contact @moderators by private message.
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