Well I have a lot to catch y’all up on. Yep, in the villages with my folks, pretty much caring for my mom. I miss who she used to be. It breaks my heart, she just sleeps and apparently, now that she’s almost 80, she’s got an addiction problem. I get so angry, I feel like she doesn’t even try. She literally wears depends so she doesn’t have to get out of bed. She’s the polar opposite of my dad who’s extremely active, but not the caregiver type.
This stupid false dui is still looming over me and making my ptsd a nightmare. I’m literally out on bond because I didn’t show up for a court case I was not even notified about. They also took my license away for not showing. So, I flew to NC in April for court and to hopefully get this whole thing dismissed, but the piece of shit trooper that arrested me to fill a quota was out on military leave so they continued it AGAIN! For SIX months!
the body cam footage that my original public defender told me she saw but it was grainy and hard to make out suddenly never existed. 2.5 years later and the blood test they took that would prove my innocence has also not been provided. If this dipshit doesn’t show up again, I really hope they just dismiss it. I can’t file any complaints or lawsuits until after. I’m not trying to deal with retaliation.
I did get a lawyer, but bless his heart, he just passed the bar a little over a year ago. He was like a dear in headlights at that last hearing. He’s been unable to obtain any recovery from the other side at all. This whole thing has been catastrophic. I can’t get a job, I’m a damn criminal right now 
don’t mess with me folks, I’m a hardened criminal. Very, very dangerous lol.
anyway, aside from that, life in the villages is literally the BEST! I’ve made a lot of friends. I do have a pretty big confession to make.
I swore that I would never, never, ever, never, ever, ever play stupid pickleball. I’m a tennis player goddammit. But omg, I tried for the social aspect and I am absolutely hooked! Hooked to the point that I’m training to go pro (seniors of course lol) but I can run down anything. I’m a quick little fucker on that court haha. I play everyday and usually more than once. I’ve been playing a lot of golf too.
my babygirl got married in June! It was a beautiful wedding. My other daughter is going into the Navy! I’m so proud of both of them 
and whoops, lost track of time, I have pickleball in a few!
How’s the family? How are you?
