Welcome Kevin 
Lots of valuable info and wise people here to learn about recovery. It’s a journey and it is one step at a time - and lots of learning, lots of stretching into new ways of thinking and living. One day at a time
These are some of my fave threads:
Checking in daily to maintain focus #41
Keep in touch and check in here; remember: you have permission to do anything that’s safe and legal, to stay sober. Take up woodworking, cancel plans if you don’t feel safe with them, change foods, treat yourself to fancy coffee, etc etc.
Introduce some new fun things, to get some enjoyment in your life. We need fun. Games, hobbies, etc, something you’re doing for nothing other than the enjoyment of the activity.
Stick with it and you’ll see results 