How awesome you’re doing this for yourself coming from the weight loss aspect but realising some of the bigger benefits as you stayed sober! You sound very perceptive and ready to wake up and change into a happier better version of you! That’s wonderful!
I think for your husband, yes, you are less fun now.
But redefining what makes you happy and healthy I think takes priority over continuing to provide fun or whatever others want of us as the expense of our own wellbeing. If there is this discord now, it is necessary because you are changing. I hope your husband will see that you are feeling better and will let you be. But it’ll likely take some boundary-setting and patience from both sides.
If you wanna talk about being w a drinker as a sober chick, join us over here: Are you affected by a loved one who’s an addict?
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All the best and welcome here!