Listing reasons

Did you make a list about the reasons you wanted to get sober? That’s the first thing I did the night I realized that my addiction had damaged my relationship to my brother and his wife, almost to the point of no return.

I can’t find the list right now because I wrote it down in a notebook, but I’ll wing it.

I wanted to repair my relationships, lose weight, get more healthy, better my mental health, become more confident (that happened immediately after I made my choice to get sober).

I wanted to sleep better, get some control of my life, spend my time doing something more meaningful, get active in local stuff and make some new friends.

That’s my list so far. What are yours?

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Didnt have a list the only reason i got sober was i was sick of being sick and i knew if i continued id probably die thought that was a good enough Reason i made new like minded friends by going to meetings wish you well

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Fat
Drunk and
Hungover
Was no way to go through my bronze years.

Tired of all my energy, all day, planning my next drink.

Beautiful achievable list you got there when we are sober.

:folded_hands:t2::heart:

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I did a list years ago and it helped me a lot, I kept it on my phone so I could re read it when needed. Here is a link …

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I am a list person for sure! I had 2 lists actually. 1 list was my reasons for quitting drugs and alcohol. My 2nd list was the consequences of what would happen if I used. I used the 2nd list more often, as it was a HUGE reminder of what would happen if I used.

I kept it in my phone so that I could read it wherever I was. Bcuz triggers/urges can happen at any time.

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Love this… wrote it down but not sure where it’s at…what comes to mind now

:sparkles: stop living recklessly
:sparkles: Regain the trust lost with family members
:sparkles:Get my health back
:sparkles: Stop killing myself slowly
:sparkles: Lose weight

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i was looking at 4 years if i couldn’t pass UA’s for probation when i got cleaned up

since then ive built a life without it

but, unicorns and rainbows it is not

“if you’re not struggling, you’re doing it wrong” lol

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