Mental health memes and discussion (Part 3)

It’s taken me a while to open up in therapy. I definitely find it easier to write things out here. When I finally told my therapist about the extent of my drinking problem, I did it via email to her because I couldn’t speak the words. It does get easier with the right therapist, but if can stir up a lot of emotion. Some days I leave feeling lighter and calmer, other times I cry on my way home. But I definitely thinks it’s been worth it for me.

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DEPRESSION TIPS:

Shower. Not a bath, a shower.
Use water as hot or cold as you like. You don’t even need to wash. Just get in under the water and let it run over you for a while. Sit on the floor if you gotta.

Moisturize everything.
Use whatever lotion you like.
Unscented? Dollar store lotion? Fancy 48 hour lotion that makes you smell like a field of wildflowers? Use whatever you want, and use it all over your entire dermis.

Put on clean, comfortable clothes.

Put on your favorite underwear.
Those ridiculous boxers you bought last christmas with candy cane hearts on the butt? Put them on.

Drink cold water.
Use ice. If you want, add some mint or lemon for an extra boost.

Clean something.
Doesn’t have to be anything big. Organize one drawer of a desk. Wash five dirty dishes. Do a load of laundry. Scrub the bathroom sink.

Blast music.
Listen to something upbeat and dancey and loud, something that’s got lots of energy. Sing to it, dance to it, even if you suck at both.

Make food.
Don’t just grab a granola bar to munch. Take the time and make food. Even if it’s ramen. Add something special to it, like a soft boiled egg or some veggies. Prepare food, it tastes way better, and you’ll feel like you accomplished something.

Make something.
Write a short story or a poem, draw a picture, color a picture, fold origami, crochet or knit, sculpt something out of clay, anything artistic. Even if you don’t think you’re good at it. Create.

Go outside.
Take a walk. Sit in the grass. Look at the clouds. Smell flowers. Put your hands in the dirt and feel the soil against your skin.

Call someone.
Call a loved one, a friend, a family member, call a chat service if you have no one else to call. Talk to a stranger on the street. Have a conversation and listen to someone’s voice. If you can’t bring yourself to call, text or email or whatever, just have some social interaction with another person. Even if you don’t say much, listen to them. It helps.

Cuddle your pets if you have them/can cuddle them.
Take pictures of them. Talk to them. Tell them how you feel, about your favorite movie, a new game coming out, anything.

May seem small or silly to some, but this list keeps people alive.

At your absolute best you won’t be good enough for the wrong people. But at your worst, you’ll still be worth it to the right ones. Remember that. Keep holding on.

In case nobody has told you today I love you and you are worth your weight and then some in gold, so be kind to yourself and most of all keep pushing on!!!

Find something to be grateful for!

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I love this, thank you for sharing! :white_heart:

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Cold shower believer :shower:!! Thankful for this entire list and you! :revolving_hearts:

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I bookmarked this post, this is pure gold! Thank you!

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It did get easier for me. It took along time for me to not feel ashamed by my past. Events that were beyond my control and even things that were. It will get easier.

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Thank you so much Stella! :heart:

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Sigh… that’s me :pleading_face:

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I love her work.

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But we can work on it. Sober and clean. I am in therapy and it’s helping. Slowly but surely. One day at a time and all that. X

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This is me exactly. I’ve started working on it too. Our needs are valid and we are allowed to take up space.

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Lay that heavy burden down, you deserve a rest.

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