My sister just sent me this 🙄

Wedding anniversary card from my sister…subliminal messages. She really is not accepting my sobriety :roll_eyes: :joy:

That is just so thoughtless. Stay strong!

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No offense but your sister kinda seems like a dick.

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We’ve talked about this sister before, haven’t we? Lol. I think she’s jealous! Just keep doing you and take the high road. You can’t force someone to see the light but that shouldn’t stop you from being it anyway!

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She’s totally jealous.

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How thoughtless… That’s not even subliminal. That’s just straight up in your face petty.

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How incredibly passive agressive. Good for you for seeing it for what it is.

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Not cool :expressionless:

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It’s almost kind of hilarious.

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Is she your big sister? Big sister- Little sister- That’s a thing you know…
She is absolutely clueless.
Try to find the humor and irony.
I get the weird sister thing.

Yeah my sister was on the outside circle, like she’s so good at, in an intervention that my best friends/ drinking buddies did for me 20 months ago. I just saw her and those same best friends/ drinking buddies a few weeks ago and they were all stupidly drunk for the 2 days I visited. That’s called alcoholic denial.

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You should send her a big book for her anniversary.

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Ah, clueless people…or passive aggressive…only you really know her. Is she acting out or just not getting it?

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:frowning:

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Thanks for all the replies. She is 7 years older and somewhat passive aggressive. I really can’t decide if it’s intentional or thoughtless. I’m choosing to find it funny. I love the support from all of you. It honestly makes me stronger. Thank you!

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Pure carelessness right there. Damn… Maybe you should just casually say something to her like, I got the card you sent, it was interesting and see what she says

I figured it would wind her up more if I just texted a polite “thanks for the card”. So I did that and she hasn’t replied :joy:

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On her next birthday or anniversary, take the time to make her a thoughtful, homemade card, and inside write something like this:

Roses are Red,
Violets are Blue.
I am sober,
Pound sand, bitch.

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