Wedding anniversary card from my sisterā¦subliminal messages. She really is not accepting my sobriety
That is just so thoughtless. Stay strong!
No offense but your sister kinda seems like a dick.
Weāve talked about this sister before, havenāt we? Lol. I think sheās jealous! Just keep doing you and take the high road. You canāt force someone to see the light but that shouldnāt stop you from being it anyway!
Sheās totally jealous.
How thoughtlessā¦ Thatās not even subliminal. Thatās just straight up in your face petty.
How incredibly passive agressive. Good for you for seeing it for what it is.
Not cool
Itās almost kind of hilarious.
Is she your big sister? Big sister- Little sister- Thatās a thing you knowā¦
She is absolutely clueless.
Try to find the humor and irony.
I get the weird sister thing.
Yeah my sister was on the outside circle, like sheās so good at, in an intervention that my best friends/ drinking buddies did for me 20 months ago. I just saw her and those same best friends/ drinking buddies a few weeks ago and they were all stupidly drunk for the 2 days I visited. Thatās called alcoholic denial.
You should send her a big book for her anniversary.
Ah, clueless peopleā¦or passive aggressiveā¦only you really know her. Is she acting out or just not getting it?
Thanks for all the replies. She is 7 years older and somewhat passive aggressive. I really canāt decide if itās intentional or thoughtless. Iām choosing to find it funny. I love the support from all of you. It honestly makes me stronger. Thank you!
Pure carelessness right there. Damnā¦ Maybe you should just casually say something to her like, I got the card you sent, it was interesting and see what she says
I figured it would wind her up more if I just texted a polite āthanks for the cardā. So I did that and she hasnāt replied
On her next birthday or anniversary, take the time to make her a thoughtful, homemade card, and inside write something like this:
Roses are Red,
Violets are Blue.
I am sober,
Pound sand, bitch.