I think patience is the key. Some people do part ways after being sober but it is worth giving it time and seeing what happens. When we change it is a lot for our partner to deal with and get used to. They may be sceptical about whether the changes we are making will stick, there are lots of factors. Remember that how things are right now isn’t how they will always be. If you’re safe then waiting to see how it plays out might be a good option.